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I was going to look for a quote about scarecrows to end the conversation, but I found a great example of normies under number 5. Take a look at how you rated it and how I did.
Added 19 minutes later Here it is, lol. Author
1. Heroist.jpg — 2, what is this fat scarecrow doing here? He should go to the gym or something, fatso. They might only give him something for a lot of money, and only something terrible. 2. Loken.jpg — 3, not fat, but still a scarecrow. 3. Siever.jpg — 3, he takes care of himself, but he still looks like a scarecrow. If he even has a girlfriend, it's only because he has money. 4. Nebo.jpg — 3, he also takes care of himself, but he still looks like a scarecrow. If he even gets girlfriends, it's only if he pays them or threatens them... 5. Alex.jpg — 3, and this one looks too immature. If he even gets girlfriends, it's only out of pity. Or he has a wonderful soul... (but we're not evaluating that here) 6. Arandor.jpg — 3, he looks like a poor guy who tries to take care of himself with whatever means he has. He thinks a beard will make him look more masculine, but it doesn't work. 7. Ment.jpg — 3, not a 1, of course, but still a scarecrow. 8. Ples.jpg — 3, there's not much to say here. 9. Revan.jpg — 1, King of Scarecrows))))))))
Bye!
Небо – мольбы не ждёт Небо – угроз не слышит Небо – ведёт особый счёт Небо – тебя найдёт
Comparing contestants in beauty pageants with people in real life. Are Miss Universe and top models for fashion shows also selected based on the principle of being the "best wife, homemaker, and mother for children"?
What does this have to do with real life? The best wife, mother... oh, come on! We're talking about appearance here. She's fine for real life, an elf is better for procreation, it's simple. And we're not talking about 100% of cases, but about the fact that there are many such cases, and there will only be more. Now I'm definitely done.)
Небо – мольбы не ждёт Небо – угроз не слышит Небо – ведёт особый счёт Небо – тебя найдёт
Your example is not viable. And when looking for a partner, people don't choose based on looks like the guy from the second picture. If guy number 5 is good at communicating and potentially a decent partner, he has a very high chance of building a family and having a good relationship. But with the guy from the second picture, there will be concerns from the start that he might be a narcissist and that he probably changes girlfriends like gloves (if anything, concerns don't necessarily mean he will definitely act that way).
I haven't read the thread with this much interest in a long time.
Yes, of course, Nebo and Ney have shifted from general ideas to specific examples. But there was still plenty of general discussion.
Neyko
In the last century, before all these dating sites, ads, and social networks, people found partners and got married not based on appearance or social activities, but because relatives introduced them to someone. And usually, it was an "approved by parents" arranged marriage, and there was no talk of love. Especially in villages. The opinions of the girl and the guy mattered little, yes. And there were no divorces then not because the families were ideal, but because it was condemned by the church/society. And they tolerated adulterers, drunkards, and domestic tyrants.
Even in the time of our parents, a certain calculation was involved. And they looked not at appearance, but at what family they came from and whether the second half was suitable in terms of social status. And going against the will of parents was not easy. Although dating through correspondence, random phone calls, and newspaper ads already existed. But it was dangerous, and you could run into some kind of inadequate person.
Now, there is almost complete freedom of choice in the market. If we are talking about adequately raised people, parents no longer influence the choice, as well as social status (yes, there are still mothers who raise mama's boys/girls and instill in them that there is no person worthy of their child). And it turned out that with this freedom, a kind of gateway to hell opened. Here you have divorce statistics because people realized that they can leave bad spouses. And girls are now actively selling their bodies on OnlyFans "to please normies" (in fact, to profit from them). And crowds of lonely people.
These are very good, interesting reflections. But I'll add another thought. In the past, matchmakers were common. And in fact, they didn't just find a suitable partner, but also visited the homes of both the groom and the bride. They looked at how the household and lifestyle were organized in the families. And often they chose couples whose lifestyles were similar. It was much easier for them to live together, not to quarrel over everyday things. Now matchmakers have disappeared, we have freedom, and we just randomly poke at a person, try, make mistakes. Divorces. Yes, unfortunately, any good girl will not suit any good guy. Compatibility is highly desirable in both life position and lifestyle. I don't disagree with what Ney wrote above, I'm just adding another aspect. Nebo
At the moment, it is most difficult for normie men under 30 to enter into any kind of relationship. And only after 30 do they have at least some chances.
I wouldn't say so. Zoomers don't want relationships at all; we millennials are a little better, but everyone is maturing later. We are often to blame ourselves. Video games, online forums, and other distractions until the age of 30. First, a normal woman like Kosha doesn't meet enough mature men, and by the time they mature, "it's already too late." Nebo
According to statistics, in apps and on dating sites, men like 50% of women, and women, at BEST, like 20%, and according to some data, 7%. So, women have high standards. But it's not surprising, given biology.
This is a good statistic, by the way; I believe it. In general, 80% of women are attractive to a man, and 20% of men are attractive to a woman. And this is an absolutely normal biological situation; women make the selection in our human species.
There is an off-topic question, since we're on the subject. Not for drawing conclusions from this topic, just for fun. Kosha, Neyra, if a photograph of Dmitry Nagiyev were submitted to the stuffed animal competition, how many points would you give it?
В тихой однообразной жизни всегда так бывает: каждый отдельный день бесконечно долог, но месяцы и годы мчатся с непостижимой быстротой.
I wanted to offer you some flowers, but a crown would suit a princess like you much better
Смысл жизни в том, что жизнь на тебе не заканчивается
And yes, personally, I vote in Hurma not based on the principle: "I would take this one to bed, but not that one." I choose based on the principle: "this one is aesthetically pleasing, that one is not." And if we judge from the point of view of "sexual attractiveness," I will answer as in the meme interview with Benedict Cumberbatch (unfortunately, I couldn't find the original): — What type of women do you like? — My wife.
Added 2 minutes later Author
Kosh, Neyra, if a photograph of Dmitry Nagiyev were submitted to a taxidermy contest, how many points would you give it?
It seems we have very different ideas about what constitutes a "normal" person. Because, in my opinion, those who are chosen based on the principle of "anything to avoid being alone" are often just a bunch of losers. And this applies to both boys and girls.
“Normal” people are those who have watched 10 anime in their lives and think that their opinion on this topic matters...
Небо
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