We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

Your example is not viable. And when looking for a partner, people don't choose based on looks like the guy from the second picture. If guy number 5 is good at communicating and potentially a decent partner, he has a very high chance of building a family and having a good relationship. But with the guy from the second picture, there will be concerns from the start that he might be a narcissist and that he probably changes girlfriends like gloves (if anything, concerns don't necessarily mean he will definitely act that way).