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Your example is not viable. And people don't look for handsome guys like the one from the "khurma" (date fruit) in position number 2 when looking for a partner. If a guy in position number 5 is good at communicating and is a potentially adequate partner, he has very high chances of building a family and having a good relationship. But with the guy in position number 2, there will be concerns at the first meeting that he is a narcissist and that he probably changes girlfriends like gloves (if anything, concerns != necessarily he will act that way).

And people don't look for handsome guys like the one from the "khurma" (date fruit) in position number 2.

He has very high chances of building a family and having a good relationship.

But with the guy in position number 2, there will be concerns at the first meeting that he is a narcissist and that he probably changes girlfriends like gloves (if anything, concerns != necessarily he will act that way).

Now matchmakers are gone, we have freedom, and we just randomly poke at a person, try, make mistakes. Divorces. Yes, unfortunately, any good girl will not suit any good guy. Compatibility is highly desirable in both life position and everyday life.

No, I wouldn't say so. Zoomers don't want relationships at all, we millennials are a little better, but everyone is maturing later. We are often to blame ourselves. Gaming, online dating, and video games until 30. First, a normal woman like Koshi doesn't meet enough mature men, and by the time they mature, "it's already too late."

Heh, it's a perfect example of what I've been writing about all these pages. A creepy guy, with a stretch, a 3 (WITH A STRETCH, meaning a 2 could have been given) turns into a potentially adequate partner))) No, most women will have the same first impression as you. Maybe if the photo was better, you would have given him a 4, but that's that.

They might not consider him for a relationship, I won't argue, but many will consider him as a father for their children.

After 30, with an RSP who suffered terribly from cursed narcissists (number 2), and then, realizing it by the age of 30, she decided to become childfree and marry a number 5)

Of course, there will be, but this won't stop many, ESPECIALLY if he shows attention, then all fears will instantly disappear.

Yes, I'm saying that it's about freedom. But we're not randomly poking around. It's all based on appearance, then everything else.

Zoomers don't want "normal" guys because they see that there are few chances, not only for an "elf," but even for someone JUST LIKE them. And she will be with the same hang-ups as him, a basket case, immature, living with her parents. And the "normal" guy won't even be against it. He is ready to put up with it, they are ready to put up with more (Yes, many are tired of this, hence the incels, MGTOW, and others, but there are still many who will put up with it). But the other side doesn't want to put up with it)) The other side would rather be second or third with an "elf" than first with a "normal" guy, be an RSP, be alone, etc. And it's perfectly clear why, because of the biological reasons that I wrote about and you agreed with below. Women make the selection, "normal" guys are rejected, the end.

The other side would rather be second or third with an "elf" than first with a "normal" guy, be an RSP, be alone, etc. And it's perfectly clear why, because of the biological reasons that I wrote about and you agreed with below. Women make the selection, "normal" guys are rejected, the end.

. I would say that the photo itself is not very good. In real life, the guy probably looks okay.

. Well, yes, everyone just dreams of meeting a handsome stranger, sleeping with him, getting pregnant, and then being a single mother. And then, for the rest of their lives, they frantically search for a new father for their child, hoping that some loser will fall for it and accept her with her child.
Just in case, if someone doesn't know, I'll share a scary news – it doesn't happen based on that criterion.

. I'll say something surprising and scary – some women who are promiscuous still have enough brains to use contraception while they're with "alpha males."

. If a girl is aiming for a serious relationship, she will be very careful with such a guy.

. On the other hand, I definitely won't deny that appearance plays a decisive role for many people at the initial stage. But in general, it's not just appearance that influences the final choice, and being beautiful is not always enough.

. I can only say that I know a girl who, at one time, broke up with a handsome guy from a wealthy family, who later became an even more successful entrepreneur in the city with a great income, simply because at some point she realized that he "smelled weird." Like, yes, he's great in every way, the perfect guy, she even admitted that it was great with him, but she couldn't stand his natural smell.

. I can't judge all Zoomers, but the ones I know personally aren't looking for an "elf," but they don't want to deal with "dish girls" and girls who are actually looking for serious relationships. They all have the same thing in mind: "I want to live for myself." And they also "don't want to work for someone else" and want a life like in Instagram and TikTok. Something like, "Why can they afford luxury at my age, and I can't?" And all this love, boobs, and all that stuff is just not interesting to them.

. On this topic, I might make a discovery for someone – many girls don't want to be someone's first or to have their first be a guy without experience, because there is a very high probability of failure in bed. Girls without experience (and sometimes even with experience, lol) are just logs who lie down and wait for the alpha male to do everything for them. They don't know what's best for them, they're not interested in figuring it out, they want "magic, like in a romantic movie." And God forbid it hurts or something doesn't work, that girl will be blown away by the guy in the future and she will scream that sex is only for guys.
At the same time, a guy without experience might just not be able to get it up because of the stress. And if, in the moment, instead of a competent partner who can support her, he encounters a log or, worse, a psycho who makes fun of him, the guy will develop such wild complexes that in the future he will turn into a complete omega or asexual. Even if he looked pretty good before the failure, he will no longer be interested in chasing girls and all this sex, which is a very important part of a relationship.

. he will no longer be interested in chasing girls and all this sex, which is a very important part of a relationship

willingness to accept a partner's mistakes

find a cutie with a good sense of humor and get into bed in 1-2 months)

And also, it's important that someone explain to these inexperienced folks that hot passionate movies with the Bald Guy or Eva Elfi don't match reality. They are a set of very well thought-out, staged, directed, and edited scenes, where the main goal is to present everything beautifully, possibly satisfy someone's fetishes, but not teach virgins anything.

Okay synonym for the word "tolerate". Tolerate, dwarves, accept.

Lol, one or two months 🤣. I might reveal something new: everything is available to elves from the first meeting. In some cases, and under certain conditions, it is also available to those who are between elves and "normal" people. And the "normal" person will wait, yes, accept, try to figure out what's what. And it will take a month, or two, or ten years.

Acceptance – willingness to discuss and work on fixing things.

Of course, with a generous "elf." And if during a meeting with this very elf, it turns out that the girl was wearing a complete set of sexy lingerie, then everything was planned by someone else, and long before this meeting 🙃

A "normal" guy, who, in my understanding, is not a gloomy autist, if he has brains, can turn out to be a better lover than the "elf."

And some so-called "elves" are so terrible in bed that girls experience psychological trauma because of them and realize that sex is only needed with men.

Kosh, it's good that we're not elves.
I only played games at 15 and didn't really want to talk to real boys 🙃

I still only play games and don't want to talk to real boys.

There aren't any elves among the Hv players at all. Well, maybe Reven is a half-elf, but I don't remember his photo very well.

Go ahead and play, who's stopping you.

I had my first kiss on the lips when I was 10 😎