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. I would say that the photo itself is not very good. In real life, the guy probably looks okay.
A good photo wouldn't save him much.
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. Well, yes, everyone just dreams of meeting a handsome stranger, sleeping with him, getting pregnant, and then being a single mother. And then, for the rest of their lives, they frantically search for a new father for their child, hoping that some loser will fall for it and accept her with her child.
Just in case, if someone doesn't know, I'll share a scary news – it doesn't happen based on that criterion.
Neyra, you read what I write, right? I've written many times that this is not the case for everyone, but for many. And yes, in the moment, no one thinks about anything, they just want it.
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. I'll say something surprising and scary – some women who are promiscuous still have enough brains to use contraception while they're with "alpha males."
Wow, Neyra, you're quickly embracing the blackpill. If there are so many like that, imagine how many are like the ones you described. And the "normal" ones will sit at home and choke a python, waiting for their beloved, while she has fun until she's 30 and condescends to him.
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. If a girl is aiming for a serious relationship, she will be very careful with such a guy.
Very careful, for the first couple of hours.
Of course, there are those who are able to control themselves for one reason or another and won't fall for it, but I don't think there are many. Maybe 5% of the population.
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. On the other hand, I definitely won't deny that appearance plays a decisive role for many people at the initial stage. But in general, it's not just appearance that influences the final choice, and being beautiful is not always enough.
That's what I'm talking about. It's not always enough, sometimes it's not enough at all.
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. I can only say that I know a girl who, at one time, broke up with a handsome guy from a wealthy family, who later became an even more successful entrepreneur in the city with a great income, simply because at some point she realized that he "smelled weird." Like, yes, he's great in every way, the perfect guy, she even admitted that it was great with him, but she couldn't stand his natural smell.
The blackpill takes smell into account, by the way. But she still dated him.
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. I can't judge all Zoomers, but the ones I know personally aren't looking for an "elf," but they don't want to deal with "dish girls" and girls who are actually looking for serious relationships. They all have the same thing in mind: "I want to live for myself." And they also "don't want to work for someone else" and want a life like in Instagram and TikTok. Something like, "Why can they afford luxury at my age, and I can't?" And all this love, boobs, and all that stuff is just not interesting to them.
I'm not arguing that the factors you mentioned exist and also influence things.
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. On this topic, I might make a discovery for someone – many girls don't want to be someone's first or to have their first be a guy without experience, because there is a very high probability of failure in bed. Girls without experience (and sometimes even with experience, lol) are just logs who lie down and wait for the alpha male to do everything for them. They don't know what's best for them, they're not interested in figuring it out, they want "magic, like in a romantic movie." And God forbid it hurts or something doesn't work, that girl will be blown away by the guy in the future and she will scream that sex is only for guys.
At the same time, a guy without experience might just not be able to get it up because of the stress. And if, in the moment, instead of a competent partner who can support her, he encounters a log or, worse, a psycho who makes fun of him, the guy will develop such wild complexes that in the future he will turn into a complete omega or asexual. Even if he looked pretty good before the failure, he will no longer be interested in chasing girls and all this sex, which is a very important part of a relationship.
This is not a discovery. The blackpill says everything you listed. And it's a vicious cycle. How will "normal" guys get experience if they're not given it? They'll get it after 30, with an experienced girlfriend who will compare them to elves, get incredibly frustrated, and tolerate it. Everyone tolerates it in general.
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. he will no longer be interested in chasing girls and all this sex, which is a very important part of a relationship
Wait, wait, what about just a wonderful, good, excellent person?)) Being friends for 5 years, having a good time, etc.?)))
Небо – мольбы не ждёт
Небо – угроз не слышит
Небо – ведёт особый счёт
Небо – тебя найдёт

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