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Well, these questions are nonsense.
1. Probably, yes, about the same level.
2. Both are 170, but he constantly slouches, so I look taller even in sneakers, not to mention platforms and heels.
3. In terms of height-to-weight ratio, he is slightly thinner, while I weigh more, but my figure is generally more proportional. In short, neither of us is perfect, we're both a little chubby, and there's room for improvement.
4. He earns more. I can say that he didn't reject me even when he was earning about 15k, when he got his first job where they paid only the minimum wage, while I was a student with a tiny scholarship.
5. It's complicated, but briefly, at one point I earned more, and at another point, he did. If we take the situation before we met, he experienced poverty at one point, while I lived in two apartments all my life (I don't know if anyone knows, but my parents are neighbors. The parents of Arandor seem to be in a similar situation). In the 90s, his family survived on his mother's meager income, because his father worked in the army, and they simply didn't pay there. In the 2000s, he faced his father's alcoholism, which consumed all the family's income, and he got a computer for free from an acquaintance who had even bigger problems in life. At the same time, each member of my family had their own computer, and my mother could afford not to work. When we met, his father stopped drinking, and the family's financial situation improved significantly, because his father was an electrician in a company that serviced defense enterprises with access to classified information, plus he received a military pension. At that time, my family was in a moderate financial situation, my mother also didn't work, they didn't have a lot of money, but they could save. In summary, both sides are in a moderate financial situation.
6. We didn't invest anything. But his parents bought it, because my parents were categorically against my moving to Voronezh and simply told me to get lost, although they could have helped with the money. And initially, they wanted to buy everything together in Komsomolsk, but at the last moment, his parents decided to return to their roots and take us with them. The apartment is registered to his mother, and she has repeatedly offered to transfer it to her husband, but we are both against it. At first, it was only about taxes, and since 2022, for more obvious reasons.
7. In Komsomolsk, it's the same, and in Voronezh, only I found a friend. And various meetings with companies also happened only thanks to me and this friend, while my husband prefers to spend the evening at the computer.
I can't even mentally answer the other questions, because I don't know what their situation with their parents is. Except that, one of my close friends has a similar situation where she is in a better position in terms of appearance, height, weight, social connections, and housing, because he simply lives in her apartment. In terms of income, sometimes she earns more, sometimes he does, sometimes they earn the same – it just depends on the time periods and workloads. At the same time, they both love each other, and according to their own words, the chemistry between them is amazing, which they didn't have with their previous partners.
These are strange questions, of course. I thought there would be something more interesting.
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