We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

Probably, they are not personal enough to discuss in private messages. Although, you can choose not to respond and just think about it yourself. Do the same with your acquaintances. As far as I remember, you and your husband are roughly the same in appearance, so that will be the first point. For the remaining points, you need to answer not as they are now or were, but in general, calculate an average. 1. Appearance: Neiko: 1; Neiko's Husband: 1 2. Height: Neiko: 1; Neiko's Husband: 0. A few centimeters don't really count as a plus for you, but let's say it is. 3. Physical fitness: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 4. Personal income: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 5. Parents' income: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 6. Who invested more in the purchase of real estate: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 7. Social connections: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? You could come up with more points, but I'm too lazy. If your husband wins, then congratulations, he is better than you x). And this is a typical example of hypergamy, everything according to Blackpill. This happens all the time, and the gap will only widen. If he has less, then this is a rare situation these days, given that you have the same appearance. If it's the same, then that's also a rare situation. Most people are not like that. I haven't seen a single couple of the last two types of our age or younger.