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Wow, that means I only have about 3 years left to live in this region of the planet! What great news.

Ask Lesha and Neyra if you were his first attempt? Or maybe the second? The third? Don't be lazy.

Lol, neither of us was the other's first attempt.
But just for you, I clarified that it all happened randomly for him (as I mentioned above, that's how it happens with normal people, spontaneously, including with us).
He's not some alpha male; until he was 18-19, he was content with anime 2D girls and games, so before I came along, he didn't have many girls he tried to date (I even know half of them in real life, lol). There were 4 attempts before me.

Revan, to be honest, forget about these dreams of yours and appreciate what you have. Start small, and things will work out. I, for example, really want to live in Australia, but I don't put kangaroo banners in my signature and I don't write everywhere about how bad things are here and how much I want to go to the Great Barrier Reef. I just know for sure that, even though my health isn't great, I'll still live to be 50-60 years old. And even if I can only move there when I'm 45 or so, I'll still be happy, and it will be worth it. You can spend your youth on challenges and overcoming obstacles. That's what it's for.

Actually, Revan's dream about an Asian cutie reminded me of one storyline in the movie "About Love." There, a Japanese woman dreamed of love with a Russian man, was a fan of Russian culture, and even came to Moscow for a Russian culture festival to find that special Russian man. She walked around, admiring our Russian drunkards, outcasts, and other oddities, seeing all of this through rose-colored glasses. In the end, she was used for a one-night stand by a Russian guy who immediately sent her away because he had a wife and children. And in the end, she was comforted by a Japanese man from the next room in the hotel, who had been stalking her for a long time and, because of her, had also started studying Russian culture and pretending to be a fan of her.
So, Revan, maybe there's a cute Slavic girl nearby who is quietly stalking you and waiting for you to get disappointed in Asian women, but not in their culture?

You'll usually find it around levels 25-27.

He wasn't some alpha male; he was fine with anime-style 2D girls and games until he was 18-19, so before I came along, he didn't have many girlfriends.

Such contradictory information, but undoubtedly, it is true.

It happens spontaneously with normal people.

I have a married couple at work – she's a sweet, shy girl who smiles kindly at everyone, modest but cheerful. He's thoughtful, calm, also very kind, and achieved a promotion in record time due to his exceptional intelligence and diligence. How did they meet?
He wasn't afraid and approached her to introduce himself. That's how it started. However, he did it in a museum – so, yes, the place was chosen based on their common interests. But the fact remains. However, they are both nerds, so they can't be considered normal people.

Actually, no.

I agree. First and foremost, physical appearance is assessed. If everything is satisfactory, communication begins, during which you find out what kind of person the girl is, what she wants from life, and what she wants from you. If your interests don't align (or if she simply rejects you), you part ways and continue your attempts. Depending on luck and the ability to compromise, after n attempts, you might find "the one." Perhaps from Neyra's perspective, it looks different because men are always the ones who initiate contact, and they don't always immediately state their intentions. Therefore, the best thing you can do is try out all the attractive girls. Of course, you need to more or less match levels (finances and other depressing aspects of real life). "The one" won't just fall from the sky, no matter how long you wait.

Maybe from Neyra's perspective, things look different because men are always the first to initiate contact, and they don't always immediately make their intentions clear.

She was the first to initiate contact and later suggested going on a date.

First and foremost, external qualities are assessed.

I don't know, maybe I'm just unique, but I've learned to roughly assess a person's personality by observing them. That is, I don't care how beautiful a girl is, if, by observing her behavior, her facial expressions, her eyes, her manner of communication, I see that she is shallow and empty, then to hell with these external qualities? If I wanted just a busty blonde, I would hire a prostitute.

I think Alex meant that the visual appearance shouldn’t be off-putting.

90% of people find them physically attractive. Among the students in our Oriental Studies program, I can name at most 10 girls who were genuinely unattractive. The rest were quite appealing, each with their own unique qualities.

Unattractive appearance in 90% of people.

Fixed it, you're welcome.

Although, you definitely exaggerated with the 90%.

I just don't understand this. I have two arms, two legs, a pleasant face, and an acceptable figure – that's normal, so let's see what kind of person they are.

lol, Neyra, you have no idea. I'm surprised by the female prowess.

And since we're on the topic of Revan getting everyone to open up, I'll admit that sometimes I wish I were gay, because, in my opinion, there are a lot more decent guys around now, both in terms of looks and personality, than there are women. But, honestly, no matter what, I'm just not attracted to guys. I need a woman's touch.

I don't know, maybe I'm just unique, but I've learned to roughly assess a person's personality by observing them.

I think almost everyone can do that: by observing behavior, you can really learn something about a person's character, but it will be rather incomplete information if you only see them in a specific environment (day after day at work, for example).

I think Alex meant that external data shouldn't be off-putting.

Well, it depends on personal requirements regarding appearance. For some, that's enough, while others absolutely need a beautiful woman. For example, Tox will accept almost anyone, Revan absolutely needs an Asian woman, etc.