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Actually, no.

I agree. First and foremost, physical appearance is assessed. If everything is satisfactory, communication begins, during which you find out what kind of person the girl is, what she wants from life, and what she wants from you. If your interests don't align (or if she simply rejects you), you part ways and continue your attempts. Depending on luck and the ability to compromise, after n attempts, you might find "the one." Perhaps from Neyra's perspective, it looks different because men are always the ones who initiate contact, and they don't always immediately state their intentions. Therefore, the best thing you can do is try out all the attractive girls. Of course, you need to more or less match levels (finances and other depressing aspects of real life). "The one" won't just fall from the sky, no matter how long you wait.