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Indeed. It's much more enjoyable to discuss someone, isn't it? You love to gossip and backbite. He plays well, but he's not a newbie; ban him! But you guys are trolling Vic; what should we do? Ban him! Ban units above level 4! Only heroes from the list are allowed to play! A normal guy, a player, a person should act like this and like that.
Maturity.

Come on, point your finger and tell me who is discussing whom? List them. And don't forget that my response is only a reaction! After my comment about the avatar, everyone misinterpreted it, and your mind started wandering into vulgar, fantastical adventures that never even crossed my mind! And now you're blaming others!!! (It would be better to hear a real answer instead of fantasizing according to your upbringing). And now you don't like that others don't want to tolerate your barbs! Calm down, reread the thread, and you'll see that it all started with one of my posts, which was misinterpreted, and then you started attacking! At least stay on topic (instead of just trying to provoke); there's no reason for this now, so deal with it and don't attack. No one asked you, and I personally have no intention of tolerating your antics!

Read the posts above again. Aripuru Dirty and female avatars bother me when they're used by male players. Double standards.
I won't write long posts here; very smart people will just point their fingers and say I'm a troll, and what else can they say if there's nothing to respond to? It's a good defense.

Read the posts above again. I find Aripuru dirty, and female avatars are inappropriate for male players. Double standards.
I won't write long texts here; very smart people will just point their fingers and say I'm a troll, and what else can they say if there's nothing to respond to? It's a good defense.

We were discussing avatars, why not? And what's wrong with that? Join in, and if you want, say why you think that avatar is inappropriate. (Just don't start with an attack. That's all.)

we play Mafia because.

I'll have my say too. A tornado is, IMHO, the most beautiful phenomenon in the world, and I think everyone would like to see one in person and chase it at least once. This is my secret dream, and my avatar embodies it.

To be disappointed as quickly as possible, you need to move to the USA, somewhere on the Atlantic coast, and the dream will come true :D
http://www.rg.ru/sujet/3101.html
http://news.mail.ru/incident/1461018
The whirlwind itself looks very beautiful in my opinion, but the consequences compensate for all its merits.

By the way, there are quite a few misconceptions of a historical nature in our common parlance, both about fascism and other phenomena.

Everything is correct; own history (from "iStory") continues to be rewritten after Lenin (a puppet whose revolution was financed by the Jewish financial oligarchy in the person of Parvus through the German General Staff [the core of which consisted of Jews]) came to power in October 1917, to please this group of people who still sit in the Kremlin today. Lenin (Blank), Yeltsin (Eltsin), Putin and Medvedev (Mendel), Luzhkov (Katz) and many others, strangely enough, are also Jews:
http://www.anticompromat.org/medvedevd/temishev.html
http://photofile.ru/users/toplad/1301501/27223047/
http://www.newsru.com/russia/22feb2008/medv_5.html
http://www.vazhno.ru/important/article/13356/
The chief rabbi of Russia recognized the Jewish origin of Putin and Medvedev - http://www.rons.ru/pumed.htm

Why do people in power, nominal leaders, hide their real names and nationality?

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But one should not feel antipathy toward Jews; they are not the cause of our problems and sufferings, they are the executors of our karma
Jesus Christ spoke of karma — whoever does no evil is not subject to evil. The modern ROC denies the very fact of the existence of karma, although in the Bibles that they recognize there are still many confirmations of the law of karma, regardless of how much they rewrote it.
article about karma and fate - http://lib.rus.ec/b/134621/read#t1
http://ru.wikipedia.org/wiki/Карма
bard song about karma - http://k-p-ss.narod.ru/song/karma.mp3
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about the revolution of 1917:
http://www.zip.org.ua/2008/04/lenin-2/
http://nstarikov.ru/books/154
And it started 1,000 years ago with the Bloody Baptism of Rus, when Vladimir "Krasnoye Solnyshko," who was Jewish on his mother's side, used sword and fire to instill Judeo-Christianity upon the then Vedic Rus. At that time there were 9 million people in Rus; after Vladimir finished his "bloody work," 3 million remained. — this fact was vigorously suppressed, but now they are simply no longer afraid and it has become available.

Then Peter I continued, who is so vigorously painted as a reformer and benefactor of Russia.
At the age of 25, Peter I went on a diplomatic journey through Europe with his entourage; a young man of Slavic appearance left, speaking Russian; he returned after 3 years as a 40-year-old man who did not speak Russian. And until the end of his reign, he never spoke Russian - http://www.levashov.info/Articles/History-2.html,
from Wikipedia:
http://ru.wikipedia.org/wiki/Исторические_легенды_о_Петре_I
etc. There are a huge number of such facts hidden by "iStory."

In our German passports, there is no nationality column
IMHO an avatar can also reflect the level of intelligence, while the number of messages reflects time wasted at the computer and not given to children, parents, loved ones, etc.

And in Russia too, there is now no such column, although it existed not so long ago, just as in Germany; previously in Russia, as in other European countries, there was a so-called Pale of Settlement for Jews: they were not allowed to hold power, did not receive high army ranks, and could not be merchants in large cities.
http://ru.wikipedia.org/wiki/Черта_оседлости

Jews who are in Germany, Russia, and other countries hide under different names and abolished this column to conceal their national affiliation. Although now they have no reason to hide it; all power is in their hands.

Only China and India remain. Russia, however, was put under the "knife" of debauchery, alcoholism, drug addiction, and they have practically already won by making us "Ivans" who do not remember their kinship. This was previously voiced by Margaret Thatcher, Prime Minister of Great Britain: At a meeting with journalists, she openly stated that it is economically expedient for 15 million people to remain in Russia; when asked where you will put so many people, she said we will create economic conditions of non-survivability for the elderly, and we will let the young be slaughtered by debauchery and drug addiction. This is what is happening now. (For the English, for example, it is considered shameful not to know one's lineage up to the 14th generation). Is it a joke that Russia's population decreases by 2 to 3 million every year? By the 2014 Olympics, there will be 6-9 million fewer of us, and by the 2018 World Cup, 14-21 million. Although official data is much more modest - http://open-letter.narod.ru/Sokr2004.html.

about their methods of population reduction and genocide:
http://blogs.mail.ru/mail/sutul.gorb.net/favorites
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I told you that you misunderstood my post. It was not a question. Look at it again; there is an ellipsis. I was saying something like thinking out loud regarding those head-over-heels in love (these are not donkeys). Love is given by God and not to everyone.

One can speak of Love if four factors are present:
mutuality
voluntariness
joy
self-sacrifice
But being "in love" is desire in the "hunger" stage:
all processes in the material world go through 4 stages: hunger, saturation, surfeit, and disgust; then after a long period of time, the "hunger" stage begins again in relation to some object, and thus these stages replace each other one by one.

Desire in the "hunger" stage looks very much like Love; for a certain time, the 4 factors described above are also present in it, but over time, the "hunger" stage will be replaced by "saturation," "surfeit," and "disgust," and with the hunger stage, these 4 factors will disappear, and the relationship will inevitably deteriorate or collapse. But if a relationship is created based on people's qualities, based on compatibility rather than temporary physical attraction to each other, then when the desire fades—after 3 months, half a year, a maximum of a year—the qualities remain as the foundation of the relationship. Such a union is more durable.

A person seized by desire in the "hunger" stage — head-over-heels in love with a young (or not so much :D) girl, effectively dazed by desire — the main goal of a person in this state is to as quickly as possible "take responsibility for her" (meaning start enjoying her body as soon as possible :D). A man blinded by desire can end up under the "heel," and a woman can manipulate him in such a state just as a guide using a carrot can manipulate a donkey — in this case, neither he nor she fulfills their duty toward each other, resulting in broken families and abandoned children.

Although ideally, she should consciously submit to and obey him if she wants to marry him (by such behavior, a woman can awaken the best qualities in a man), and he, if he wants to have sex with her, must take responsibility for her for his whole life: before God, her parents and his own, and before society (therefore, he must study her qualities very carefully) — but this is an ideal situation; unfortunately, now it is unlikely.
Now sex is not a reason for getting to know someone :D

[Previously in Rus there were "smotriny" (viewings) — where a small boy and girl were sat together and the family elders observed them for some time; in those times, people knew how to see qualities through behavior and communication, and concluded whether they would get along or not; now everything is destroyed]

Creating a family based on temporary physical attraction (without considering qualities or compatibility) is the cause of the huge number of divorces in Russia (54% as of 2007, while in Japan it's 27%, and in India 1.1 — and even then only because Western debauched "culture" arrived there): http://razvodimsya.ru/all/statistika-razvodov-v-rossii.

Indians were asked why they have so few divorces, and they said:
we love those we marry, while you marry those you love. Plus, from childhood, they are taught the "science of family relationships." Sometimes in India, the groom and bride see each other for the first time at the wedding — and then live happily all their lives. While with us, there are 2-3 months of daily sex, and then an immediate divorce, skipping the wedding :D

Generally, creating a family union solely on the basis of being "in love" is not reasonable; being in love (desire in the hunger stage) will inevitably fade, bodies will no longer bring as much joy or satisfaction since they have been studied inside and out, but the qualities will remain, which one will then have to live with, though practically no one looks at them now.
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God gives Love to everyone; we just don't want to take it.

The knowledge written below in your post can be further supported by a series of fictional (backed by scientific knowledge) literature by James Rollins (Jim Chaykovski) (I've read almost all of them) — his books have exactly this slant on the topic. A magnificent scientist-writer (more interesting than anyone else I've read, even Chase and my favorite writer Stephen King, whom I place below him).

thx, I'll read it.

As for the Aryans, I will tell you that the same fascists and Nazis understood that they could not be them; they conducted tests and experiments trying to breed a pure Aryan race.

They simply didn't want to; anyone can become an Aryan; being an Aryan is not a race, an Aryan is a way of life. And we don't want to change anything now in our ignorant way of life.

Ancient Eastern wisdom: "A saint had a past, and a murderer has a future."
A saint could once have been a murderer, and a murderer in the future can become a saint.

Started with female avatars, continued with Aryans, now the conversation is about pipes. Everything as usual.

+1 :D
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I apologize if I caused anyone any trouble by what I wrote, and for any mistakes made

Inciting ethnic hatred is a criminal offense. Besides the obvious ignorance of the author, who draws his "stories" from specialized literature, I would like to point out two things: first, the thoughtless use of national attributes. After all, who are Russians? Does he consider the peoples of the Caucasus, Tatars, Mari, Primorye, Chukchi, etc., to be Russians? Why is the nationality "Russian" used as an adjective? Second, why is the servile mentality so shamelessly imposed – the people of the Caucasus, Jews, and external factors are to blame for our troubles. In short, everyone but us. In other words, if we logically continue this thought, it turns out that if we destroy the Jews, the people of the Caucasus, and non-Russians, or rather, non-Aryans, then paradise will come to earth, life will be a breeze, and we can lie on the stove, drink vodka, tell bad jokes, and loudly burp. Is it in such a state that such works, bordering on manic paranoia, are written?

Sometimes in India, the bride and groom see each other for the first time at the wedding – and then live happily ever after.

Oh, ho, ho. I had such "happiness" once.

Inciting ethnic hatred is a criminal offense.

And what about getting people drunk, hooking them on needles, corruption, and the defilement of youth—is that a criminal offense? Does that fall under inciting ethnic hatred or genocide? (My niece is in 6th grade; out of 16 girls aged 13-14, only 2 don't drink).

If the amount of alcohol consumed per capita exceeds 12L per year, it leads to the degradation of the nation, to degeneration; in Russia, it is already 18L—these are official figures.

These guys call you and me, everyone of a different nationality, two-legged animals (they don't even consider their own mixed-blood compatriots as human and use them as bargaining chips [Stalin (Djugashvili) was a mixed-blood Jew by their classification; after the war in 1953, he tried to gather all the Jews of the USSR and deport them to a Jewish autonomy, which is why they immediately whacked him, poisoned him, and didn't let doctors in for 3 days until he kicked the bucket]), for interest's sake, find Torra and read it.

These cheerful guys have practically demolished the country in every way (you don't have to look far for examples; near my house were two of the most powerful plants by world standards, SibTyazMash and SibStal—the latter produced over 200 types of rocket and machine-building steel—they were systematically bankrupted over 10 years and closed, and there are thousands of such examples across the country), they are systematically destroying the population: economically, morally, through various political reforms, and via healthcare.

Moreover, the FSB and MVD completely oversee all drug trafficking; they create an illusion of a fight, while in reality, they manage the distribution—your child and mine have already been factored into their plans for narcotization. And all the TV shows with raids on drug dens and laboratories are professionally choreographed spectacles.

The modern "Zionized" ROC (Russian Orthodox Church) trades in alcohol excise taxes—one of the types of indirect tax. It is included in the price of the product and collected into state and local budgets. The payers of the excise tax are the buyers of the goods subject to the excise collection.

What inciting of ethnic hatred are you talking about? They long ago crossed the boundaries of ethnic hatred and stealthily proceeded to genocide, to getting people drunk. (If both the future father and mother regularly drink beer for even 2-3 years before conception, the child is born with a congenital alcohol dependency) and if beer is not added specifically to their baby food, they will simply die.
http://www.no-narcotics.ru/node/11
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The picture is bleak, but this is reality,
what's the point of remaining in ignorance and thinking everything is fine?

Plus, I am not calling for revenge, hatred, etc.

In the previous message, there was an answer to the question about inciting ethnic hatred:
one should not feel animosity toward Jews; they are not the cause of our problems and sufferings, they are merely the executors of our karma. The cause lies in our own immorality; we get what we earned.

Aside from the author's obvious ignorance, drawing their "stories" from specialized literature, I will note two points—first, the mindless use of national attributes. Actually, who are Russians? Does an Aryan consider the peoples of the Caucasus, Tatars, Mariels, Primorye, Chukchi, etc., as Russians? Why is the nationality "Russian" used as an adjective?

At the moment, ignorance is our nature; we are proud, envious, ill-tempered, touchy, aggressive, hypocrites, etc. The problem is that my understanding is far from the truth, which is why one needs to read primary sources. Or not read them; no one is forcing you. My goal is not to convince you or impose my point of view. My goal is to tell you about what I find very interesting (facts, reality). What's the use of living in a pink illusion that everything is wonderful?

Recently you told Rimpel:

Rimpel - perhaps it's due to the specifics of the internet provider or something else. Only a dim-witted person would write "nonsense" without understanding the issue themselves and having very questionable personal experience.

well written :D

Russians are descendants of many Slavic clans.
Nominally Russians, the peoples of the Caucasus, Tatars, Mariels, Primorye, Chukchi, and many others belong to Aryans, but Aryan is not a nation; it's a way of life. An Aryan considers everyone better than themselves.

This is the same as asking if these peoples belong to doctors or not? Whether one is an Aryan or not is not a question of nationality; it's a question of qualities. Someone who has a medical education and certain skills is a doctor regardless of nationality.
It might seem that I strongly dislike Jews; it's not because they are Jews, but because these cheerful guys are demonic personalities—demons (meaning possessors of certain consciousness qualities). The demonic nature is such that they destroy: the four legs of religion: asceticism - intuition, purity - sensorics, mercy - ethics, truthfulness - logic, and five social institutions upon which society rests: 1. The Institute of Elders - they should not be abandoned, 2. The Institute of Women - they must always be under protection (first Father, then Husband, then eldest son), 3. The Institute of Children - they also should not be abandoned and must be protected, 4. The Institute of Brahmins (valkhs, priests) - wandering preachers, 5. And the institute of cows (the cow is the embodiment of the mother), milk is the only product that develops the fine tissues of the brain—reason, and reason helps to understand the idea of God. Previously in Rus', the cow was also a sacred animal. In India, they still remember this today. But these guys don't sit idle.

"Russian adjective". - I don't know. Why?

Second—why is slave psychology being shamelessly imposed—that Caucasians, Jews, and external factors are to blame for our troubles. In general, everyone except us. That is, if we logically extend the thought, it turns out that if you destroy the Jews, Caucasians, non-Russians—sorry, non-Aryans—altogether, then paradise on earth will come, life will be a breeze, you can lie on the stove and sip vodka, cracking low-grade jokes and belching loudly. Is it in such a state that similar opuses, bordering on maniacal paranoia, are written?

Where did you see me writing that someone else is to blame, and not the person themselves?

But one should not feel animosity toward Jews; they are not the cause of our problems and sufferings, they are the executors of our karma

the cause of all problems is inside the person themselves.
I didn't write anything about Caucasians at all.

If we assume that someone else is to blame and not the person themselves, then subsequent statements are true; but since the first statement—that someone else is to blame—is false, and all subsequent statements about destroying other peoples are built on the basis of the first, consequently they are also false.

Although you can try; start with the Jews, they'll cut off your oxygen quickly. All power, the entire army, the mass media are in their hands. They cannot be defeated by their own methods. You could try non-Aryans, then you'd have to kill almost everyone and start with me and you :smile34: :D

Well, if they are so great, why have they hidden their names, surnames, and nationality throughout a thousand years of history?
If they caused no one any harm, if everything said about them is the rambling of a madman, then why long before 1917 were they tried to be expelled from Russia many times, in 1492 from Spain, Portugal, France, Italy?
http://jhistory.nfurman.com/teacher/03_104.htm

then paradise on earth will come, life will be a breeze, you can lie on the stove and sip vodka, cracking low-grade jokes and belching loudly.

what's stopping you from doing that right now? :D a specific kind of paradise, of course ) but tastes aren't argued )
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Ohoho. I had such happiness in one place.

If everything is so ridiculous and absurd, why do they have 1.1% divorces per 100 families while we have 54%?
Future husbands and wives do not see each other until the wedding, but qualified family astrologers study their horoscopes, qualities, and characters for compatibility long before the wedding. If astrologers believe they are not suited for each other, there simply will be no wedding.

Although in the end, the master is the boss; if you don't want to have happiness, happiness will have you :smile02:

2ariputra
So, you're one of those people who believe that the position of the Sun in relation to other astronomical objects at the time of birth can somehow influence a person's personality? Oh u!

Oh, the conversation has shifted from discussing duels to interethnic discord. Where will it go next? World War II, tales of Scheherazade, or the search for the G-spot?

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just for fun, find Torra and read it.

Have you read it? And if so, in what language, I wonder? Semitic languages are very complex, and it's not easy to learn any of them, and you make a lot of mistakes even in Russian – so it's doubtful that you read it in the original.
Well, an adapted translation that is not in the original language is no longer the Torah, just as the Quran in any language other than Arabic is no longer the Quran.

You can create the desired impression by pulling quotes from any book.

2ariputra
So, you're one of those people who believe that the position of the Sun in relation to other astronomical objects at the time of birth can somehow influence a person's personality? Oh u!

I don't understand astrology: search for "Vedic astrology" and "astrology" in search engines.

I know that the Sun and Moon have the greatest influence on a person's life and destiny. There are also various types of food that are digested according to solar and lunar digestive fires.

Is getting people drunk, hooking them on needles, corrupting and defiling the youth a criminal offense? Does this fall under inciting ethnic hatred or genocide? (My niece is in 6th grade; out of 16 girls aged 13-14, only 2 don't drink).

If the amount of alcohol consumed per capita exceeds 12l per year, it leads to the degradation of the nation, to degeneration; in Russia, it is already 18l. — these are official data.

These guys call you and me, everyone of a different nationality, two-legged animals (they don't even consider their own mixed-blood compatriots as human, and use them as bargaining chips [Stalin (Djugashvili) was a mixed-blood Jew by their classification; after the war in 1953, he tried to gather all the Jews of the USSR and deport them to a Jewish autonomy, which is why they immediately whacked him, poisoned him, and didn't let doctors in for 3 days until he kicked the bucket]), out of curiosity, find the Torah and read it.

These cheerful guys have practically demolished the country in every respect (you don't have to look far for examples; near my house were two powerful plants by world standards, SibTyazMash and SibStal—the latter produced more than 200 types of rocket and machine-building steel—they were systematically bankrupted over 10 years and closed, and there are thousands of such examples across the country), they are systematically destroying the population: economically, morally, through various political reforms, and via healthcare.

Moreover, the FSB and MVD completely oversee all drug trafficking; they create the appearance of a struggle, but in reality, they manage the distribution; your child and mine have already been factored into their plans for narcotization. And all the TV shows with raids on drug dens and laboratories are professionally choreographed performances.

A man from nowhere. In your words, lies are interwoven with truth, and quite clumsily at that. Some kind of panic flight into oneself and spiritual wretchedness. Yes, it's no secret for those interested in what the FSB and MVD live by!
But what an interesting explanation for everything—you see, people themselves are angels in the flesh, but someone is preventing them from living, someone doesn't love them, imagine that—someone lives better than they do. Buddy, you are a representative of a huge army of losers. You can read E. Limonov's book of the same name; everything about you is written there. Maybe it will sober you up a bit. For such a man, someone is always to blame—the neighbor who lives better than him. And why better? Because he deals with dark forces, a demOnic personality. What you are talking about is actually an archetype. You live in sh*t, but you will never admit that you receive in this life exactly what you actually deserve, if not more. Searching for a scapegoat is generally characteristic of humans, both Russians and people in general. YOU simply believe that if the Jews allegedly didn't interfere with living, it would be easier for people like you. And most importantly, what is the reason—they are demOnic personalities. Maybe just put them on a pyre right away, then you'll actually start living. But you know, to me, people like you are demonic personalities. I'm not joking: the vulgar wretchedness of the inner world, the stupid cloning of others' views, and the imposition of a communal regime. After all, this is primitivity—are you calling us there with you? You see, your main attribute is ignorance, and of a street-level kind at that. It's also called active stupidity.

Aside from everything else, no one denies that the people who pushed science and art forward were mostly of Jewish nationality. And not only banks, but research centers and organizations were also created by the Jewish people. Including ecological ones.

Personally, I don't give a damn what nationality Putin, Medvedev, or say, Surkov are. To me, it is absolutely unimportant; I believe that a person should be judged by their actions. Well, anyway, let's not talk politics.

Do you see the difference between us? If we both ended up in sh*t, I would try to get out, and you would look for someone to blame, preferably of some other nationality, a Jew or a Gypsy, so that your little soul would feel more comfortable. And if I got out first, then I would also end up being the guilty one in your eyes, and you would die of black envy.

Now well, and of course, I'll run through your "half-wits."

Is getting people drunk, hooking them on needles, corrupting and defiling the youth a criminal offense? Does this fall under inciting ethnic hatred or genocide? (My niece is in 6th grade; out of 16 girls aged 13-14, only 2 don't drink).

Believe me, people like you also contribute greatly to this. If someone offered me a choice of a wife (you write about this below), and I were to see her for the first time at the wedding, I would probably drink myself into oblivion or get hooked on needles. It is quite obvious that in such so-called "unions," parents usually act out of selfish interests; marriages of old men to 12-14 year old girls are not uncommon. This theme is reflected in Indian cinema, by the way.

Stalin (Djugashvili) was a mixed-blood Jew by their classification; after the war in 1953, he tried to gather all the Jews of the USSR and deport them to a Jewish autonomy, which is why they immediately whacked him, poisoned him, and didn't let doctors in for 3 days until he kicked the bucket), out of curiosity, find the Torah and read it.

Another injection of paranoid delusion. At the very least, there is no reliable information about this, nor any declassified documents. Even if we assume that he was poisoned (which I personally do not believe, the old man was already 73), it's unlikely that the Jewish question could have been decisive; attributing it to that can be explained either by profound ignorance or serious psychological trauma.

I have no goal of convincing you or imposing my point of view

There definitely is one, not even masked. Have the courage to admit that this is exactly why you are writing all this or copying it from somewhere.

It may seem that I strongly dislike Jews; the issue is not that they are Jews, but that these cheerful guys are demonic personalities—demons

Well yes, a pity the Holy Inquisition no longer exists; you would have proven everything to everyone, reported everyone to the right place.

The future husband and wife do not see each other until the wedding, but qualified family astrologers study their horoscope, qualities, character, and compatibility long before the wedding. If the astrologers believe they are not suited for each other, there will simply be no wedding.

Yes, of course, feed us fairy tales about the white lamb. You know that this happened among all primitive ignorant peoples. And the tradition remained alive until very recently. You won't believe it, but my late grandmother was proud that my grandfather didn't beat her (although he was quite a strong man in his youth). She was the ONLY one in the whole village who lived without weekly or even daily beatings. Not for nothing does the saying exist—he beats you, it means he loves you.

and finally,

and reason helps to understand the idea of God

Explain to the guys what this "idea of God" is. What idea are you even talking about? Plato's idea? Descartes' idea, or maybe Hegel's? Do you at least understand that the idea of God is purely a European tradition (although it apparently comes from Ancient Greece), and here you are bringing in Brahmins.
Hare Krishna!

There are many government employees on the internet who monitor words related to those unpleasant topics that we have reached. :)

Let's all calm down a bit. :) It's better to talk about love. :)
You can't marry a stranger; you need to live together first, get to know each other's personalities, and adjust to each other. Otherwise, people behave one way when they meet, and then differently after the wedding, and the mundane issues become obvious and very harsh!
In a relationship, you need to behave as you are from the beginning. Immediately decide who does what and why, in order to avoid at least some misunderstandings. You need to choose a partner based on "calculation," but not material calculation, but based on human qualities (of course, not without ordinary attractiveness). For example, a woman should be kind, gentle, and loving, and definitely love children, and be much softer than a man. If a woman is energetic, aggressive, and generally a leader by nature, then she will not be able to live long with a man of the same type. In every couple, there can only be one leader (and they can be obvious or hidden). Obvious is when both know who has the final say. Hidden is when it seems like they both discuss things, but in most cases, it is done according to the decision of one, and only a small part of the decisions, sometimes insignificant, remains for the other. There is no equality (when everyone does the same thing without dividing responsibilities) in a family; there is mutual understanding and respect.
He who follows only the call of his heart will definitely make mistakes, but he who walks in wisdom will be saved.
The body, visual beauty, is important for meeting (getting acquainted), intimacy, and pleasant pastime, but for life, the inner world is important.
We are all discussing different topics here, arguing, proving, because everyone has a different inner world, different beliefs. Various factors influence this. And when these factors roughly add up and converge in several like-minded people, a kind of invisible collective of like-minded people is formed. The same is true in a family.

I won't even read the exact definition of the term "Love," but for me, it is a mutual desire (not just a wish and doing nothing) to make your partner happier (even sacrificing something). And different things make different people happy. :)
Love each other, girls and boys:smile23:

Love is simply a very strong attachment, to the point where it seems like you can't live without that person. And this applies not only to a person of the opposite sex, but also to parents, friends, pets, and even more. You can love anything or anyone you've become accustomed to and attached to.
Getting married after seeing someone for the first time is complete nonsense, regardless of astrological horoscopes, and can only happen in a not-so-civilized society.

The mechanism of love is similar to the mechanisms of stress and neurosis. An irritant—the object of love—enters the subject's field of vision. A conditioned reflex mechanism (see "Pavlov's dog") triggers a chemical factory in the brain. A whole bouquet of various substances is formed there and carried by the bloodstream throughout the body. These substances cause both simple reactions, such as salivation, flushing of the skin, and rapid breathing, as well as complex experiences, such as the soul's flight of love. Love euphoria itself is caused by neuropeptides and substances of the amphetamine group, specifically norepinephrine, dopamine, and phenylethylamine (PEA). These three substances, especially PEA, are love itself in its pure, test-tube form.
It is not for nothing that they say a person is intoxicated by love. Indeed, amphetamines are substances of the light drug class. Therefore, the speech of lovers is sometimes akin to the logic of addicts. And the logic of a young addict is as follows: "I would rather live three years brightly and intensely than fifty years dimly and boringly!" Such speech is a typical sign of drug addiction. Try to take the object of love away from a lover, a syringe from a heroin addict, a bottle from an alcoholic, cards (a betting pool, roulette) from a gambler... The reaction will be violent. Because the nature of their addiction is equally narcotic. The only difference is that some introduce chemical substances into their body artificially, while others provoke their production by the body itself, as lovers and gamblers do. Gamblers are adrenaline addicts. They gamble themselves, as they say, "down to their underwear" and take the last things from the house, just like alcoholics. Adrenaline addicts may not gamble but may rob banks. Or risk their lives in the mountains, engaging in useless mountaineering. Or participate in night street races. Jump with a parachute. Snowboard on unequipped slopes and avalanche-prone areas. The main thing here is that they cannot do without a dose of adrenaline. Long abstinence drives them into a depressive state; life seems gray and boring...
The difference between addicts is not only in whether they are on a "natural" or "artificial" drug, but also in the strength of that drug—some substances kill quickly (for example, the average life expectancy of a heroin addict is 4 years), while others pose no immediate threat to life but can considerably spoil its quality. Like, for example, unhappy love. Or a betting pool. Or marijuana.
As with all drugs, a person gradually becomes accustomed to the amphetamines of love. They require an ever-increasing dose, and the constant irritant (the object of love), due to the same habituation, can no longer cause the emergencies required by the addict at the body's chemical factory. The emotional tornadoes subside, the soul no longer sings. Thus passes earthly love.
According to statistics, the self-healing process lasts three to four years for the average individual. By the way, this period also coincides with the peak of divorces. One can try to warm up a fading feeling by consuming chocolate: chocolate contains a certain amount of PEA. However, for this, one would need to eat chocolate by the kilogram...
And why does love work for 3–4 years on average? To that shortly below.
Why is love needed?
Many believe that Love (having read romantic books, one wants to write this word with a capital letter) is the main thing that distinguishes humans from other animals.
This is a mistake...
Culturologists and ethnographers call love a "pan-humanoid characteristic" because they found traces of it among all peoples in all times. Biologists go even further. They say that love occurs not only in "humanoids" but also in many other animals. In wolves, for example, in swans... Legends are even composed about swan love. One animal likes another animal very much. An attachment arises, which is necessary for the joint upbringing of offspring. The clever Darwin called the phenomenon of personal attraction the second type of sexual selection—based on the "like" or "dislike" criterion.
Why did nature need love? After all, nature does not tolerate excess. Reproduction is possible anyway. Rabbits, for example, cope successfully without any love. They shake and scatter without sentimentality. So why did evolution consolidate such a strange thing as a long-term emotional attachment of one animal to another?
"When the burden on one parent for raising offspring becomes too great, in animal communities, whether fish, birds, or mammals, a strong union appears, joining parents of both sexes throughout the entire period of raising the young," so it is written in a popular book about the origins of mating pairs. And what binds mating pairs? What serves as the attachment of one individual to another? This very thing serves...
Love is not present in all species. Only in those that do not leave their offspring to the mercy of fate, but raise them. It is hard for a female alone. She must feed herself, and carry and feed the child. It would be good if someone helped, brought some food. Who? Well, who else, here is the first candidate—the dear daddy!.. Fine, but what joy is there for daddy in carrying roots to the child and the female? Does he have nothing better to do? Especially if the male is dominant and doesn't give a damn about anyone lower in rank. He might take a banana from a lower-ranking individual... This means some clever thing is needed to tie the male to the female and the offspring. And such a clever thing exists. You know what it is called...
For about three years, a primate's offspring rides on the mother's back, restricting her movements, and then it jumps through the branches as well as adults, leaves the breast, and eats bananas. That is, three years is a perfectly sufficient period to raise a child. There is no need to love the partner more. On the contrary, it would be better to change them to diversify the gene pool. And that is how it happens in nature.