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There are many government employees on the internet who monitor words related to those unpleasant topics that we have reached. :)
Let's all calm down a bit. :) It's better to talk about love. :)
You can't marry a stranger; you need to live together first, get to know each other's personalities, and adjust to each other. Otherwise, people behave one way when they meet, and then differently after the wedding, and the mundane issues become obvious and very harsh!
In a relationship, you need to behave as you are from the beginning. Immediately decide who does what and why, in order to avoid at least some misunderstandings. You need to choose a partner based on "calculation," but not material calculation, but based on human qualities (of course, not without ordinary attractiveness). For example, a woman should be kind, gentle, and loving, and definitely love children, and be much softer than a man. If a woman is energetic, aggressive, and generally a leader by nature, then she will not be able to live long with a man of the same type. In every couple, there can only be one leader (and they can be obvious or hidden). Obvious is when both know who has the final say. Hidden is when it seems like they both discuss things, but in most cases, it is done according to the decision of one, and only a small part of the decisions, sometimes insignificant, remains for the other. There is no equality (when everyone does the same thing without dividing responsibilities) in a family; there is mutual understanding and respect.
He who follows only the call of his heart will definitely make mistakes, but he who walks in wisdom will be saved.
The body, visual beauty, is important for meeting (getting acquainted), intimacy, and pleasant pastime, but for life, the inner world is important.
We are all discussing different topics here, arguing, proving, because everyone has a different inner world, different beliefs. Various factors influence this. And when these factors roughly add up and converge in several like-minded people, a kind of invisible collective of like-minded people is formed. The same is true in a family.
I won't even read the exact definition of the term "Love," but for me, it is a mutual desire (not just a wish and doing nothing) to make your partner happier (even sacrificing something). And different things make different people happy. :)
Love each other, girls and boys:smile23:
Let's all calm down a bit. :) It's better to talk about love. :)
You can't marry a stranger; you need to live together first, get to know each other's personalities, and adjust to each other. Otherwise, people behave one way when they meet, and then differently after the wedding, and the mundane issues become obvious and very harsh!
In a relationship, you need to behave as you are from the beginning. Immediately decide who does what and why, in order to avoid at least some misunderstandings. You need to choose a partner based on "calculation," but not material calculation, but based on human qualities (of course, not without ordinary attractiveness). For example, a woman should be kind, gentle, and loving, and definitely love children, and be much softer than a man. If a woman is energetic, aggressive, and generally a leader by nature, then she will not be able to live long with a man of the same type. In every couple, there can only be one leader (and they can be obvious or hidden). Obvious is when both know who has the final say. Hidden is when it seems like they both discuss things, but in most cases, it is done according to the decision of one, and only a small part of the decisions, sometimes insignificant, remains for the other. There is no equality (when everyone does the same thing without dividing responsibilities) in a family; there is mutual understanding and respect.
He who follows only the call of his heart will definitely make mistakes, but he who walks in wisdom will be saved.
The body, visual beauty, is important for meeting (getting acquainted), intimacy, and pleasant pastime, but for life, the inner world is important.
We are all discussing different topics here, arguing, proving, because everyone has a different inner world, different beliefs. Various factors influence this. And when these factors roughly add up and converge in several like-minded people, a kind of invisible collective of like-minded people is formed. The same is true in a family.
I won't even read the exact definition of the term "Love," but for me, it is a mutual desire (not just a wish and doing nothing) to make your partner happier (even sacrificing something). And different things make different people happy. :)
Love each other, girls and boys:smile23:
МУДРЫЙ - не обязательно старый, ОПЫТНЫЙ - не обязательно мудрый... обладатель и того и другого всегда должен помнить слова НАПОЛЕОНА БОНАПАРТА: Война состоит из непредусмотренных событий; В каждом большом деле всегда приходится какую-то часть оставить на долю :smile33: СЛУЧАЯ...