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Let me start by saying that love is not a feeling, but a state of the soul (not the body). Love in itself does not carry negative emotions; it is never selfish. Now, let me explain: if a person loves, they will only wish good things for the object of their affection. If the loving person learns something bad about the person they love, then other feelings come into play, which introduce doubts, anxieties, and so on.

All human feelings are personal perceptions as a result of something or just like that :)
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In general, you can be in love, but building love is much more difficult.
And now, specifically: Love is not love if it receives unrequited love in return; unrequited love is just infatuation.
Love is a spiritual feeling and cannot happen, for example, with an object that is dear to us (not spiritual).

Well, why not here? That's what this thread is for.

I'm sorry, I completely disagree with you. I'll explain in more detail why.
1. I don't consider love to be any kind of state of the soul. And I don't quite understand what this "state of the soul" is. So I disagree with the definition of love.
2. Your first situation. These feelings, such as jealousy, anger, etc., do not prevent love; that's why they say, "Jealousy means love." As for infatuation, I don't even know; infatuation lasts for a short time, usually from a couple of months to half a year. It is a strong surge, passion, and a lot of emotions. You wrote about passion above; passion is part of infatuation.
3. The second situation, a mother who stopped loving her child, whom she raised and brought up, seems like a fantasy to me. Maternal love, in my opinion, is the strongest; I don't believe that any fear can overcome it. That's why it is allowed not to testify against one's family; otherwise, there would be a lot of false testimonies.
4. I agree with the first sentence of the last paragraph. I disagree with the rest.
P.S. Are you a romantic? You elevate this feeling so much.

Chat here, don't listen to anyone.
Actually, it's interesting to read how others, and mostly young people, perceive this incomprehensible and incredibly pleasant state of the soul.
You were a little late with this topic; if it were a little earlier, when I was overwhelmed by the first waves, I would have written so much to you... Now it's a bit awkward.

In general, I'll tell you, there have always been pragmatists who seriously explain love as sexual attraction or hormones... Poor, deprived people; what can you say?

In general, I'll tell you, there have always been pragmatists who seriously explain love as sexual desire or hormones... Poor people deprived of life, what can you say :)

And can love be built? Is it a house?

Have you read it? And if so, in what language, I wonder? Semitic languages are very complex; it's not easy to learn one of them, and you make a lot of mistakes even in Russian – so it's doubtful that it's the original.
But an adapted translation that isn't in the original language is no longer the Torah, just as the Quran in any language other than Arabic is no longer the Quran.
You can extract quotes from any book to create the desired impression.

A person from nowhere. There is a mixture of truth and lies in your words, and it's quite clumsy. Some kind of panicked retreat into oneself and spiritual poverty. Yes, it's no secret to those interested in what the FSB and the Ministry of Internal Affairs are doing!
But what an interesting explanation for everything - people are angels in human form, but someone is interfering with their lives, someone doesn't love them, someone, imagine, lives better than them. Friend, you are a representative of a huge army of losers. You can read E. Limonov's book of the same name; it says everything about you. Maybe it will sober you up a bit. A man always blames someone else - a neighbor who lives better than him. And why is he better? Because he knows some dark forces, he's a demonic personality. What you're talking about is generally an archetype. You live in a pigsty, but you will never admit that you are getting in this life what you actually deserve, if not more. The search for an scapegoat is typical for a person, for a Russian, and for everyone in general. You just think that if the Jews supposedly didn't interfere with life, it would be easier for people like you. And the main reason is that they are demonic personalities. Maybe we should burn them at the stake, and then you will live happily ever after. And you know, for me, people like you are demonic personalities. I'm not joking; it's a vulgar poverty of the inner world, a stupid imitation of other people's views, and calling it a communal regime. After all, this is primitiveness - are you inviting everyone to join you? You see, your main attribute is ignorance, and of a very superficial kind. Active stupidity is also called.

Besides everything else, no one denies that the people who advanced science and art were mostly of Jewish nationality. And not only banks, but also research centers and organizations were created by the Jewish people as well, including environmental ones.

I personally don't care what nationality Putin, Medvedev, or, say, Surkov are. I think that a person should be judged by his actions. But let's not talk about politics.

Do you see the difference between us? If we were both in a mess, I would try to get out, and you would look for someone to blame, preferably someone of a different nationality, a Jew or a Gypsy, so that your soul would feel more comfortable. And if I got out earlier, I would still be to blame for you, and you would die of black envy.

Kostyan, write about love :smile43:

When girls played in my tournaments, the arguments and swearing stopped on their own. That's exactly what we need for order on the forum – more female players, it would be a huge plus. :)