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True, pure love is given only by God. It does not have, nor does it carry, any negative emotions! There is no such thing as unhappy love!

For example, you fall in love with someone and suffer because the object of your affection does not love you. This is not love – it is egoism!
It turns out that you want the object of your affection to love you. It is presumptuous to want everyone we supposedly love to love us.
Unrequited love does not exist; we only call it that. In reality, it is simply not love, but a desire to make someone fall in love with you (to force them to love you).
Love is only mutual; everything that is not mutual is not love.
As for 3-4 years, that is also not about love. Attachment is not love, and they cannot be put in the same category.
Love requires constant nurturing.


PASSION IGNITES, BUT LOVE IS BORN.

Complete nonsense from a child!!!

True, pure love is given only by God. It does not have, nor does it carry, any negative emotions! There is no such thing as unhappy love!

For example, you fall in love with someone and suffer because the object of your affection does not love you. This is not love – it is egoism!
It turns out that you want the object of your affection to love you. It is presumptuous to want everyone we supposedly love to love us back.
Unrequited love does not exist; we only call it that. In reality, it is simply not love, but a desire to make someone fall in love with you (to force them to love you).
Love is only mutual; everything that is not mutual is not love.
As for 3-4 years, that's not about love either. Attachment is not love, and they cannot be put in the same category.
Love requires constant nurturing.

Regarding Darwinism and the "chemistry" in the brain, a friend of mine says the same thing. It's quite possible that this is the case, that a bunch of processes are triggered, but I don't see the point in such an interpretation of the word; it can only explain something to some scientist.

Childish babble from a girl, don't embarrass yourselves!
Stop spamming!

What is the child wrong about? Regarding the lack of reciprocity - let me explain. Personal feelings are not true love...

Why can only mutual feeling (love – is it a feeling?) be called love? Let's take, for example, any other feeling (emotion – are they synonyms?) – let's say, joy. If a person experiences joy and at the same time they are the only one on the entire planet (abstractly) – this will be a truly complete feeling, not requiring any reciprocity, etc. But why, if a person experiences love (not turning into a desire to possess, etc.) – is it an incomplete feeling, lacking reciprocity for it to be complete? I'm very curious to hear an explanation. I'm looking forward to it.

Well, I'll start by saying that love is not a feeling, but a state of the soul (not the body). Love in itself does not carry negative emotions; it is never selfish. Now, let me explain: if a person loves, they will only wish good things for the object of their affection. If the loving person learns something bad about the person they love, then other feelings come into play, which introduce doubts, anxieties, and so on.
All human feelings are personal perceptions as a result of something or even just like that :)
1. Let's imagine a situation: a girl is madly "in love" with a guy, but he doesn't love her no matter what. Instead of the love I'm talking about, other feelings interfere (jealousy, resentment, anger, a desire to please, etc.). These feelings prevent her from living; she is depressed. What kind of love are we talking about? :) (infatuation)

2. A mother loves her son very much and does everything for him; naturally, she wishes only the best for her child. But if he grows up to be some kind of callous, evil, and insensitive person (violates laws, torments animals, or something else), then the mother begins to fear her offspring. Initially, the mother cannot experience bad feelings, but only love (because love and family are one and the same), but then love disappears, not because the mother no longer wants happiness, but because feelings of fear or something else interfere, and that pure state disappears.

In general, you can be infatuated, but building love is much more difficult.
And now, specifically: Love is not love if it does not receive love in return; unrequited love is just infatuation. Love is a spiritual feeling and cannot happen, for example, with an object that is dear to us (but not spiritual).