A brief comment.
Out of all the posts in this topic, I ask you to pay attention to these 3.
First, Archer seems to have very accurately pointed out the essence of the problem and why the arguments started. I noticed a similar situation on several other Heroes forums... Apparently, due to the lack of novelty, people are looking for something to do, and accordingly, by reading other people's messages on the forum, they find an outlet for themselves... Similarly, on other portals, either bickering begins, or endless off-topic chatter that is not related to the topics at all, or accusations against Nival about not fixing bugs with particular vehemence... Please, now that the disputes seem to have been resolved one way or another, pay attention to these messages and draw the right conclusions... (By the way, remember the title of the topic and don't go off-topic (talking about "war"), but talk about "peace"!)
/topic/at/41220/Also, Inquisitor partially noted the same thing
/topic/at/41297/The only thought that was an attempt to resolve the emerging problem was expressed by Snowball; by the way, it seems like a very reasonable idea, and I support him in this.
/topic/at/41469/Guys, I will try to formulate my recipe for solving problems, and you decide what suits you.
To resolve the dispute, in my opinion, you need to first
calmly and clearly state the reason for the disagreement (because as one of my MathMech professors said: "you can't prove a Theorem if there are no clear definitions of the terms it operates with and/or the formulation of the theorem itself"). Then, together, try to find a solution to this conflict (and not create new ones). Also, a small comment. Before attempting to solve the problem, decide whether you want to reconcile with this person. If "No," then there is no point in trying to solve it; only new grievances will arise; just stop communicating with the person (possibly telling him about it in one short message so that he doesn't bother you and does not get upset himself. Respect each other), fortunately, the internet allows this freely. If still "Yes", then do not abandon the solution of the problem halfway through by saying "well, then we have nothing to talk about."
That’s all from me. I don't want to teach anyone, but I hope my message helps someone solve their problems, even if not related to Heroes, but simply on a human level!
P.S. Somehow the comment turned out to be not very brief :)
With respect to all visitors of our forum. Supreme