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If that were true, you would often see couples on the street where the man is shorter than the woman. But there are very few of them. Everything gets into your head through personal experience. The personal experience of most dwarves is that no one takes them seriously, including in all other areas of life.

Yes, I've seen all sorts. And skinny ones with fat ones (both options), and dwarves with elves, and elves with dwarfesses. I often see elves walking with orcs of different heights. Many years ago, a gnome-like orc approached me very confidently. And I've also seen orcs with very beautiful elves. In short, anything happens, and it all depends on what kind of nonsense has been instilled by parents, the environment, and life experience in general.

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I disagree that she was setting something up. This is her basic firmware. It's just that this firmware has been running at full capacity for the last 10-15 years, due to the fact that women have completely stopped depending on men. That's why they mainly choose based on appearance. Men do the same. Only they choose 2D. Well, how can you call the choice between a crocodile and 2D a choice...
During all the time spent in dating apps, I haven't received a single like from women taller than me. To be fair, I've seen maybe 5 of them.

But the firmware is usually taken from the settings that are formed in childhood. Often, such women have fathers who are about 2 meters tall. And if the parents don't explain that height is not the main thing, then, of course, she will be uncomfortable bringing a dwarf home.

Good grief, when will you rise above this and stop stooping to such petty things? It's so low.

I’ve seen all sorts. Both skinny and chubby ones, dwarves with elves, and elves with female dwarves. I often see female elves walking around with orcs of different heights. Many years ago, a dwarf-like orc approached me very confidently. And I’ve also seen orcs with very beautiful elves. In short, anything can happen, and it all depends on what kind of nonsense is going on in their heads, influenced by their parents, environment, and life experience in general.

I’ve also read a lot, and anything can happen. But we’re talking about the majority of cases. In most cases, the man will be taller. There are very few couples like the ones I described. I even saw some statistics somewhere, it seems that couples where the woman is taller are around 2%, I don’t remember the exact number. And that’s without information about what’s going on with the dwarf’s money and status. Most likely, he’s compensating for the difference. But, of course, you can keep telling yourself that if a woman is taller than her lover, then any ordinary, bald dwarf can do the same. No, he can’t.

This kind of programming is usually taken from the attitudes formed in childhood. Often, such a woman’s father is about 2 meters tall. And if the parents don’t explain that height isn’t the most important thing, then, of course, she will be uncomfortable bringing a dwarf home.

This is monkey programming, formed a long time ago. Without growing up in human society, it certainly won’t be activated, but that doesn’t mean that the attitudes in childhood form it. They more often suppress it, which makes things even worse.     

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Oh, when will you rise above this and stop stooping to such trivialities? It’s so low.

Nebok and Neyka got into a drunken fight and ruined the chat for everyone. The same thing happens every month.

I even saw some statistics somewhere, like the percentage of couples where the woman is taller is around 2%, I don't remember the exact number.

Wow, I immediately thought of several of my acquaintances from just one city, Komsomolsk, who fall into that 2% O:
Another proof that your statistics are nonsense and come from the delusional episodes of schizophrenics.

Adult conversations over vodka, and two 30-year-olds still haven't grown up. But Sun Min Min did, he's a good guy. Here's someone who knows the secrets of increasing height without any surgeries.

Wow, I know several of my acquaintances from Komsomolsk alone who are in the top 2%.
Another proof that your statistics are nonsense and come from the delusional ramblings of schizophrenics.

Are you entering 1-2 centimeters? Or is there a significant difference?
The statistics are not nonsense; they are the only thing that reflects reality to some extent.

Specifically, in our case, the height difference is 1-2 centimeters; before me, he dated girls who were even taller. One of them even wore 10cm heels, and neither of them seemed to mind.
As for others, it varies. I know at least one couple with a height difference of ~5-6 cm without heels.

I need to ask a few personal questions. But I'm not sure if you'll want to answer them.

I don't want to either. I looked at myself in the mirror. I'm just an old bag of garbage.

A bit of high-quality humor from Voodahte.

Probably, they are not personal enough to discuss in private messages. Although, you can choose not to respond and just think about it yourself. Do the same with your acquaintances. As far as I remember, you and your husband are roughly the same in appearance, so that will be the first point. For the remaining points, you need to answer not as they are now or were, but in general, calculate an average. 1. Appearance: Neiko: 1; Neiko's Husband: 1 2. Height: Neiko: 1; Neiko's Husband: 0. A few centimeters don't really count as a plus for you, but let's say it is. 3. Physical fitness: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 4. Personal income: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 5. Parents' income: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 6. Who invested more in the purchase of real estate: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? 7. Social connections: Neiko: ?; Neiko's Husband: ? You could come up with more points, but I'm too lazy. If your husband wins, then congratulations, he is better than you x). And this is a typical example of hypergamy, everything according to Blackpill. This happens all the time, and the gap will only widen. If he has less, then this is a rare situation these days, given that you have the same appearance. If it's the same, then that's also a rare situation. Most people are not like that. I haven't seen a single couple of the last two types of our age or younger.

Well, these questions are nonsense.

1. Probably, yes, about the same level.
2. Both are 170, but he constantly slouches, so I look taller even in sneakers, not to mention platforms and heels.
3. In terms of height-to-weight ratio, he is slightly thinner, while I weigh more, but my figure is generally more proportional. In short, neither of us is perfect, we're both a little chubby, and there's room for improvement.
4. He earns more. I can say that he didn't reject me even when he was earning about 15k, when he got his first job where they paid only the minimum wage, while I was a student with a tiny scholarship.
5. It's complicated, but briefly, at one point I earned more, and at another point, he did. If we take the situation before we met, he experienced poverty at one point, while I lived in two apartments all my life (I don't know if anyone knows, but my parents are neighbors. The parents of Arandor seem to be in a similar situation). In the 90s, his family survived on his mother's meager income, because his father worked in the army, and they simply didn't pay there. In the 2000s, he faced his father's alcoholism, which consumed all the family's income, and he got a computer for free from an acquaintance who had even bigger problems in life. At the same time, each member of my family had their own computer, and my mother could afford not to work. When we met, his father stopped drinking, and the family's financial situation improved significantly, because his father was an electrician in a company that serviced defense enterprises with access to classified information, plus he received a military pension. At that time, my family was in a moderate financial situation, my mother also didn't work, they didn't have a lot of money, but they could save. In summary, both sides are in a moderate financial situation.
6. We didn't invest anything. But his parents bought it, because my parents were categorically against my moving to Voronezh and simply told me to get lost, although they could have helped with the money. And initially, they wanted to buy everything together in Komsomolsk, but at the last moment, his parents decided to return to their roots and take us with them. The apartment is registered to his mother, and she has repeatedly offered to transfer it to her husband, but we are both against it. At first, it was only about taxes, and since 2022, for more obvious reasons.
7. In Komsomolsk, it's the same, and in Voronezh, only I found a friend. And various meetings with companies also happened only thanks to me and this friend, while my husband prefers to spend the evening at the computer.

I can't even mentally answer the other questions, because I don't know what their situation with their parents is. Except that, one of my close friends has a similar situation where she is in a better position in terms of appearance, height, weight, social connections, and housing, because he simply lives in her apartment. In terms of income, sometimes she earns more, sometimes he does, sometimes they earn the same – it just depends on the time periods and workloads. At the same time, they both love each other, and according to their own words, the chemistry between them is amazing, which they didn't have with their previous partners.

These are strange questions, of course. I thought there would be something more interesting.

These are rather strange questions. I thought there would be something more interesting.

A more interesting question:

before me, he had girlfriends

How many? 
An even more interesting question: how many "in the opposite direction," that is, "before him"?

My husband had 5 girlfriends before me. I had only been dating one guy for 1.5 months before him, a real jerk, and nothing came of it. I think I already told you about the 180cm idiot who never matured mentally, even at 30. So, if either of us had "experience," it was definitely my husband. And the fact that I was inexperienced was, in a way, even a disadvantage.

Again, the thread is flooded with lifer discussions, seriously. Let me mix things up a bit.

From the "How HeroesWorld influences people" department. I just wanted to chill to some cool AI-generated songs, glanced at this video—and immediately thought of Sanya. Now I'm sitting here wondering how he's doing, whether he managed to increase.



By the way, Sanya, what do you think of Shrek — a decent ogre or too green? The rolled-up ears thing isn't really my vibe