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When will you finally find a decent job? When will you finally find a bride? When will you finally have children? When will you finally start a family, maybe then you'll become a normal person. And who are you, that you're so aimless? And I told you, there's no need to reach for the stars. See, nothing worked out for you. You should be content with what you have. And look, the son/daughter of your mother's friend/cousin/sibling/father was already... at your age. You've wasted all your chances. What will you do then? Who will bring you a glass of water? All illnesses come from the mind. And have you heard what's happening in America/Russia/Ukraine... And look, even Kolya is now with a woman who has two children from her previous marriage, and he's happy! Happiness is in family! When will you finally get your act together? Everything you do is different from everyone else. Oh, so many hopes were placed on you... Someone probably jinxed you. Even the neighbors are ashamed to talk about you. Get that nonsense out of your head. Maybe you have problems with your head?
It's interesting how there are people who constantly live with their relatives and face this every day.
It's interesting how there are people who constantly live with their relatives and face this every day.
You had a terrible day. And yes, Revan is right, living with parents really does lead to "problems with the mind" in most cases. Most parents try to sublimate all their hopes and dreams through their children, and when something doesn't go according to plan, it causes them great distress and a desire to interfere in order to "help." Well, you showed an example of what this interference looks like.
Even Kolya recently married a woman with two children from her previous marriage, and they are happy!
They are a bit out of touch with reality; nowadays, that's not called "happy," it's called "cuckold."
Added 2 minutes later But in general, it's a disaster. It's good that I don't talk to my relatives. And when my grandmother tries to tell me about her friend's grandson or other relatives who found a good job/bought an apartment/did renovations, I immediately tell her that I don't want to hear it, and she shuts up.
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Nightmare vegetable or insomnia?
But after insomnia, are you not a nightmare vegetable?
Even Kolya recently married a woman with two children from her previous marriage, and he's happy!
That's slander, I didn't marry anyone.
It's interesting how there are people who constantly live with relatives and face this every day.
Fortunately, mine are normal in this regard. Of course, they also want me to get married (and I'm not against it), but everyone understands that it's better to not rush into it than to do it just for the sake of it. Trying to tie your life to a random person will definitely not bring happiness. If we spend an hour trying on shoes in a supermarket, checking if they're comfortable to walk in, if they don't pinch anywhere, or if the heel doesn't rub, then it's even more important here.
Ironically, "problems with the mind" often come from such people.
Yes, Heroist, hang in there. Protect your mental health, we're rooting for you.
Ironically, but "problems with the mind" come from such people.
To be fair, no, it's not called that. Although I'm not saying that it's something good, divorced people are still a bit of a sensitive topic, you can never be sure that the marriage didn't fall apart because of their own character.
And when my grandmother tries to tell me about her friend's grandson or other relatives who found a good job/bought an apartment/did renovations, I immediately tell her that I don't want to listen to it, and she shuts up.
You have a good grandmother, one who understands. And what are you complaining about, with such a grandmother?!
If we spend an hour trying on shoes in a supermarket, checking if they are comfortable to walk in, if they don't pinch anywhere, or if the heel doesn't rub, then we should definitely do the same here.
To be fair, no, it's not called that. Although I'm not saying it's a good thing, divorced people are a bit of a sensitive topic, you can never be sure that the marriage didn't fall apart because of their own character.
I'm not talking about divorced people, but about raising other people's children when you don't have your own – that's an extreme act of selflessness. Unless it's a widow, then it's still understandable. And even then, just in case, it's worth checking the death certificate of the husband.
You have a good grandmother, one who is understanding. And what are you complaining about in life, with such a grandmother?!
I threatened them with suicide, and they're afraid to say anything to me.
They are a bit behind the times; nowadays, it's not called "happy," but rather "cuckold."
But no, here it would be more accurate to say he "found himself an RSP" (Relationship Status Provider). If she had married him, had two children in the marriage with some random guys or drug-addicted thugs, and he accepted them as his own, then yes, your scenario would be appropriate.
I'm not talking about divorced people, but about the fact that raising other people's children when you don't have your own is a behavior typical of a cuckold. Unless it's a widow, then it can be understood. And even then, just in case, it's worth checking the death certificate of her husband.
Dude, that's just not true. If her ex-husband continues to sleep with her while she's with a new guy, then yes. But if they got together and she's faithful, then definitely not.
Added 1 minute ago And according to that logic, if you get together with a guy/girl who isn't a virgin, then you're a cuckold. BECAUSE THIS PERSON HAD SOMEONE BEFORE YOU.
Dude, no way. If her ex keeps sleeping with her while she's with a new guy, then yeah. But if they got back together and she's faithful, then definitely not.
Write something else, like it's not a downside, but a nice bonus.
Because with that logic, if you get together with a guy/girl who isn't a virgin, it's cuckolding. BECAUSE THIS PERSON HAD SOMEONE BEFORE YOU.
No. You're not wasting your time and resources on someone else's kids, so it's all good. Besides, someone was with you before this person. So you're on equal footing.
Regarding the topic of "taking a wife with two children from a previous marriage," I would like to add that while there is nothing inherently wrong with this, it is still better to be cautious and under no circumstances register these children as your own. If the family is loving and everything is going well, the woman doesn't need any formalities. But if this seemingly happy family suddenly falls apart, it will be very sad when the once-loving wife maliciously laughs and files for child support for the aforementioned children, whom the trusting husband adopted because of LOVE.
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