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He's been stalking her for a long time and, because of her, he's also started studying Russian culture and pretending to be a fan.

Men always initiate contact first.

I don't want that with guys; I need female affection.

Weren't you just happily talking about trap builds in the neighboring thread?

Deep down, they are women.

In the end, it was used once by a Russian guy who immediately rejected her because he has a wife and children. And in the end, a Japanese guy from the next room in the hotel comforted her; he had been stalking her for a long time and, because of her, had also started studying Russian culture and pretending to be a fan of hers.

Men always initiate contact first.

Weren't you the one happily talking about trap builds in the other thread?

"Fishing with nets," as Siv notes, is a useless piece of crap. It's quite logical that it doesn't yield any results.
I don't know how it is for most people, but in my opinion, it all starts with ordinary friendship and a desire to communicate, which is reinforced by a natural attraction to each other (I doubt the likelihood of attraction to a person whose appearance is, to put it mildly, repulsive). Otherwise, people are simply interested in communicating with each other; they should be united by some common interests, and only then does it gradually turn into flirting and everything that follows.

Now, it's all about a woman evaluating everything and giving advice to a man based on that.
Nets, Revan, use them.

I agree. First, external data is evaluated. If everything is satisfactory, communication begins, during which it turns out what kind of girl is in front of you, what she needs from life, and personally from you. If your interests do not coincide (or if she simply rejects you), you go your separate ways, and you continue your attempts. Depending on luck and the ability to compromise, after n attempts, you find the infamous "one." Maybe from Neyra's perspective, it looks different because men always initiate contact first, and they don't always immediately state their intentions. Therefore, the best thing you can do is to go through all the attractive girls. Well, of course, you need to more or less match the level (finances and other sad moments of real life). "The one" definitely won't fall from the sky, no matter how long you wait.

Revan, honestly, forget about these dreams of yours and appreciate what you have.

So, Revan, maybe that cute Slavic girl is walking around somewhere near you, quietly stalking you and waiting for you to get disappointed in Asian girls, but not in their culture?

And you can also spend your youth on overcoming challenges.

with insightfulness

And in general, since we have a topic here where Revan has tricked everyone into being open, I'll admit that I sometimes regret that I'm not gay, because, IMHO, there are now more normal guys, both in terms of appearance and character, than girls. But, damn it, no matter what, I'm not aroused - and that's it. I don't want to do it with guys; I need female warmth.

I think almost everyone can do this: by observing behavior, you can really learn something about a person's character, but this will be rather incomplete information if you only see him in a certain environment (day after day at work, for example).

What can be said about "friendship" - if there are appropriate circles of active communication, and many people of the opposite sex are included in these circles, this option is probably the best. If this is not the case, the advice "just gradually make friends with someone, spontaneously" is as useless as possible, simply. That's all.

So, nothing at all?

You can do without all that, and you won't be gay. And you don't need to poke each other with your fleshy appendages to have your special someone.

I'll even say more – a person is very likely to turn out to be not "who they really are." Does anyone around me know that I'm an unbalanced Age of Empires fanboy, or about my psycho-emotional state? No, no one does. Because to them, I'm just a regular 23-year-old guy.