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I don't deny that, Officer, a "friendly" scenario is possible. And it would be silly to deny something when we have an example of it on our forum. I'm just explaining that in the absence of this "friendship," it's strange to hope for this option and to reject the one that can be applied right here and now.
That is, you're right, I'm just clarifying that I never went to "extremes," like Neyra, who says that trying to meet people randomly is pointless.
I GAVE A LIKE FOR THE SMART WORDS, IF THIS WAS A DISLIKE, PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

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Alexeagle
I agree. First, external data is evaluated. If everything is satisfactory, communication begins, during which it turns out what kind of girl is in front of you, what she needs from life, and personally from you. If your interests do not coincide (or if she simply rejects you), you go your separate ways, and you continue your attempts. Depending on luck and the ability to compromise, after n attempts, you find the infamous "one." Maybe from Neyra's perspective, it looks different because men always initiate contact first, and they don't always immediately state their intentions. Therefore, the best thing you can do is to go through all the attractive girls. Well, of course, you need to more or less match the level (finances and other sad moments of real life). "The one" definitely won't fall from the sky, no matter how long you wait.
It's amazing how a person of this age understands such things. Perhaps this is what distinguishes a "normal" person from us – they understand obvious things from a young age, rather than struggling to reach them.
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