Posts from Strange love.

I absolutely disapprove of such relationships. A man should be a man, and even better, a real man. In principle, I have a neutral attitude towards homosexuals themselves, although I had a rather unpleasant experience communicating with them. In school, in the ninth grade, a new student arrived. He was gay. It wasn't obvious at first glance, and I didn't realize it right away. In my class, I had a special "role": I greeted new students and helped them integrate into the group. On the first day, I showed him everything, explained the written and unwritten rules of 9th grade, and everything seemed fine, but in the evening, he asked me out on a date...:eek: I remember how the guys laughed at my facial expression after I heard that:D At first, I was taken aback, and I calmly explained that I wasn't gay. However, on the second day, it happened again. And it started...:mad: for an entire month, this... Excuse me, this representative of a non-standard orientation kept bothering me. With great difficulty, finding the remaining shreds of political correctness and tolerance in myself, I told him each time that I was not gay, had not been in the past, and did not plan to be in the future, but the story repeated itself again and again. He almost confessed his love to me! In the end, I couldn't take it anymore... So I punched him (by the way, before that punch, I was considered the weakest in the class among the male students). The "dove" burst into tears and ran home. The next day, he was already complaining to his female friends about emotional and physical trauma (by that time, he had managed to become friends with all the girls). For the next two weeks, the entire female population of the class boycotted me:D So, during the entire ninth and half of the tenth grade, I could safely be called a homophobe. I'm glad to hear that not all of them are... Anyway, okay:)

I have a very negative and hostile attitude towards it.

Hmm, well said, noble. But I don't know if I'll be able to communicate with such a person in the same way if I know that he's looking at me (and those around me) not just as friends...

Yeah well.. a topic like any other:):):)
I believe that people with same-sex orientation... are just like us, only they're riding their own wave.... for 2 years now I've been trying to figure out one guy and can't understand if he's a FA...G or not:) ..because his behavior scares me..... sometimes I feel ashamed of this person.... that' same reason why I've formed these impressions about these little people: "let them live their lives however they want, but if this guy gets in the way of me living with my normal orientation, I'll hit him hard but carefully right in the muzzle!!!" .......
PS(Once I was walking through "Goluboy Slonik" park located in Krasnodar and almost puked from what I saw - 10 meters away from me were two men around 40 years old holding each other by the ASS....) so I don't even know how I feel about them... the main thing is that it doesn't affect my friends...!!!!
...... damn, but I have a different attitude toward leb...ians ...it's cool to party with them and after the party...:)

Let's talk now, NOT about GAYS, but about LESBIANS!!!!!

I had some friends like that. They went to a friend's party at his place, got drunk, and things started happening. They dragged them into a room, tied them up, and... well, I enjoyed it.))))
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Let's talk now, NOT about GAYS, but about LESBIANS!!!!!

I had friends like that. We went to a friend's party at his place. They got drunk there, and things started happening. They dragged someone into a room, tied them up, and... well, I enjoyed it))))
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Yes, but there could also be staunch feminists, and then things might end differently.

If I were a girl, my opinion would probably be the same))):D.
In general, I think that this kind of activity should be stopped, regardless of whether it's men or women. Of course, female relationships might seem more acceptable, but I'm impartial in this matter! It needs to be stopped! (Wow, that's strict:D)

Yes, but there could also be staunch feminists, and then things could end differently.

Well, not all lesbians are feminists, but if such ones showed up... crosses... :smile30: :smile30: :smile30: :smile30:

Personally, I believe that two adults have the right to do whatever they want in a private bedroom, and it shouldn't concern anyone else what exactly they are doing.

Nowizard, I had exactly the same situation with a new student in 9th grade. He harassed me until graduation, and no attempts (verbal, physical, or through the school administration) to make this jerk understand that I found his advances unpleasant were successful. So, it's not about orientation, but about the IQ of a specific person; there are such idiots who, at best, understand only the language of force, and at worst, they don't even understand that. It should be noted that I didn't wear mini-skirts or low-cut tops back then (and I don't wear them to the institute now), and my appearance couldn't provoke anyone to such behavior.

No, I am less tolerant when it comes to girls. Anyone who watched the South Park episode about how Mr. Garrison spoke about lesbians will understand me (I can't repeat his words myself, there's just too much profanity).

I have an even more negative attitude towards lesbians than towards gay men. There's one unpleasant trait about lesbians – they deliberately mislead guys, date them, and even have sex with them. And then they suddenly dump them, honestly admitting that "they like girls more and have found their one and only." And they even have the audacity to insult men! Saying that they are rough, unrefined logs covered in stubble, smelling of alcohol, and incapable of true tenderness. Why am I going on about this? Because my friend had a girlfriend like that! Since then, the guy has become a staunch misogynist.

Personally, I believe that 2 adults have the right to do whatever they want in a private bedroom, and it doesn't concern anyone but them what exactly they are doing.

Nowizard, I had exactly the same situation with a new student in 9th grade. He harassed me until graduation, and none of the attempts (verbal, physical, and through the school administration) to make this creep understand that I found his advances unpleasant were successful. So, it's not about orientation, but about the IQ of a specific person; there are such idiots who, at best, understand the language of force, and at worst, they don't even understand that. It should be noted that I didn't wear mini-skirts or low-cut tops back then (and I don't wear them to the institute now), and my appearance couldn't provoke anyone to such behavior.

Laura! You didn't understand the topic.

I don't treat them well... especially males... but not in a hostile way.

The main thing is that he is a reliable friend and a decent person. And his personal life is none of our business.

Guest, I understand perfectly. But it seems I couldn't clearly express my position on this issue. I'll try again: I believe that a person's personal life is their own business, and I generally don't include sexual orientation in the list of criteria by which I consider it possible to evaluate a person. I simply don't care: whether someone is gay or straight, a sadist or a masochist, etc. What I do care about: whether someone is smart or stupid, honest or dishonest, a good professional or incompetent... and so on. Is that clear now?