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You must have missed the beginning of all these SoD vs. TE discussions, then SoD vs. WT. These arguments have been going on for many years, everything has been said many times, and positions have been defined.
The time to look for a compromise has passed; many are now stubborn out of principle and will not be able to bring themselves to admit that their opponent is right after all these arguments.
Therefore, the format of discussing this issue is practically pure mudslinging, aimed not at convincing the opponent, but at slandering them. It's a show for the outside audience.
You have chosen the SoD side, so you are being slandered by the WT people. If you had chosen the WT side, the SoD people would be slandering you. If you choose a middle ground, both sides will slander you.
That's why I believe that this dispute has no constructive solution. A merger, if it happens, will only occur in a couple of generations of players, when the current adherents step down.
Regarding personal grievances, I have no presumption of respectful treatment towards people. If a person has not demonstrated anything, then the attitude is neutral. And it can only become respectful for something that I evaluate positively.
So far, you have shown yourself in my eyes exclusively negatively - there is no visible gaming skill, the worldview differs from mine, the argumentation is clumsy, you defend SoD, you try to assert your rights without a corresponding reputation base, etc. All of this is a disadvantage, and the only advantage is the desire to communicate. That's not enough to bring you down to earth.
I don't see any attacks from the SoD people; on the contrary, in the arguments between a novice and an old-timer, it is difficult to support new ideas, but this is happening, thereby admitting the mistakes of the former ideology. And this plus is much more significant than the fact that people who don't know me judge me for various reasons (mainly based on the experience of others).
It all comes down to the unwillingness to communicate. It seems that this is deeply ingrained in your subconscious. There is a clear unwillingness to have anything in common with new people; you have closed yourself off from everything and everyone. These methods have long been ineffective. In our world at the moment, the ability to resolve problems through negotiation is valued. Maybe someday you will understand this.
Now your position is clear to me; there was no need to blame everything on the unwillingness of the SoD people, since you yourself are not ready.