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7 years ago
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Thank you all for the help!

I will continue describing the situation.

1. My father has become very weak; now he doesn't even have enough strength to sit up without help. However, the situation with his hands has improved slightly (after a period when he couldn't hold a cup—now he can, and he wipes his mouth with a towel during meals). Therefore, after the severe decline, there is a small return toward normalcy. At one time he couldn't even stand when I lifted him—now, with difficulty, he stands on shaking legs while I hold him.

2. His appetite has become quite excellent. Now he eats 2-3 small bowls (previously we struggled to force just one) of everything, without being picky. We eat slowly and in a very liquid form (I dilute it with water) because it is hard for him to swallow thick or large pieces (which would require thorough chewing). Even swallowing medication capsules has become problematic.

3. The main problem remains the headaches. They are intensifying; we have already switched from Ketalong painkiller to Tramadol. This gives him no peace. He is used to enduring everything and constantly says that everything is fine, but it's obvious how he can't find any comfort, how tightly he squints his eyes, grimaces, and holds his head. I hope we can resolve the headache issues before switching to morphine... Due to the painkillers, he has become more lethargic. A problem with the optic nerve is visible—during sleep or even while awake, one eye may be half-closed, the mouth slightly droops, and he hardly speaks (only in the morning does it ease up slightly and he can say something barely intelligibly).

4. Today some kind of poisoning or systemic failure occurred (we will need to analyze what the problem is—perhaps food poisoning, perhaps drug incompatibility, perhaps an overdose somewhere, or something else). Throughout the day he felt nauseous; he went to the bathroom for bowel movements about 5-8 times, but not with liquid stool and only in small amounts, suffering from pain. When he lay flat, he began to choke with a cough—I had to keep his head and body elevated even while lying down. We decided to give him an enema, but the water did not come back out, which most likely indicates that he is very severely dehydrated. But we'll see; maybe it will come out during the night. I hope he feels better.

5. Over the weekend, we are preparing to start a second course of sodium bicarbonate IV drips. After the completion of the first course, his appetite returned; I hope the second one also brings improvement.

6. We maintain a diet as much as possible. More fruits and vegetables in boiled, raw, or baked form, as well as juices and some porridges (buckwheat, lentils). We have excluded sugar, lard, yeast, and high-grade wheat flour. We have limited the consumption of dairy, meat, and fish.

An inflatable tub arrived today. If my father's condition allows, I will try to give him a soda-salt bath to cleanse the skin and subcutaneous layer of toxins, cleanse the lymph, and alkalize. Plus, this type of bathing (soaking) should theoretically be less painful and stressful for him—since he won't need to maintain balance or do anything, and will shake his head less from the pain.

Lately I have been working little—since it is impossible to leave my father alone for long—but somehow money for the main medications is being found. Plus, you all are providing enormous help; without you, perhaps my father would no longer be alive. Thank you all once again!

PS. If anyone knows of folk or natural painkillers for severe headaches, please let me know. Maybe we can use them to remove or reduce the doses of painkillers. From what I found, it's Dimexide+water+boligolov (cow parsnip), but there are many side effects there.
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7 years ago
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Thank you all again.

I'll continue to describe the situation.

1. We gave him a baking soda bath. The results seem to be as expected. The bruises from stagnation (on his knees, etc.) first turned pink and then gradually disappeared. The water in the bath was an awful color – I hope it was toxins being removed from his body. The bath lasted about 30-40 minutes, give or take. He even started to speak better and louder, but only temporarily.

2. Overall, the situation has worsened significantly in the last two days. My father has started eating poorly and has difficulty walking (this causes him pain, but he doesn't show or tell me where exactly). He's also started to clench his mouth, making it difficult even to feed him. But, to prevent him from becoming completely weak, I found another solution. My father has only 2 teeth left, so besides his lips, there are no obstacles to introducing water or juice into his oral cavity. Therefore, I'm giving him fluids using a syringe without a needle. When he's feeling bad, he swallows rarely, and feeding him can take more than an hour, even with a small bowl, but the main thing is the result.

3. During the day, his temperature rose to 39.1. We waited a bit to observe the situation. In the end, the temperature didn't rise or fall. We managed to bring down the temperature with dimedrol + analgin. After that, we were able to feed him a little and give him some water. If he continues to drink so little, we'll have to administer enemas. We already gave him one – as a result, the water (about 400-500 g) didn't come out within half an hour, which most likely indicates dehydration.

4. The second course of baking soda infusions was disrupted due to scheduling. Yesterday, we had to administer cleansing infusions due to the worsening condition. And today, we wanted to administer an infusion to reduce swelling, but, unfortunately, there was no one to administer it. I hope we'll find someone during the day. We'll try to reduce the swelling and cleanse him further, and then start the second course of baking soda infusions.

5. In the last two days, it has become difficult to give my father medication, so I'm using an inhaler more often (baking soda, hydrogen peroxide), compresses (dimethyl sulfoxide, dichloroacetate sodium, salt, todicamp), and hydrogen peroxide nasal drops. There's also the option of administering infusions through the rectum (without a needle – like enemas), but that's a last resort.

6. I'm trying to give him massages and exercises for his legs, back, chest, and neck to prevent stagnation, bedsores, and ensure normal blood circulation.

So, the fight continues. The headaches continue – we're relieving them with tramadol and ketorolac. But now there are also problems with digestion and even greater weakness. Plus, the pain relievers are slowing down his thinking and reaction, which further exacerbates the treatment process. It's difficult when each family member has their own opinion on how to treat or proceed. Hence, there's no specific treatment protocol; everyone contributes their share...

We continue to purchase medications for treatment, infusions, food, etc. Everything is in God's hands! But we will pray and continue treatment to the very end... Thank you to everyone who provides moral support, advice, words of encouragement, and some even provide material support or help in finding information. I bow to you and wish you all the best.

A special thank you to Frishe, who has provided a lot of support for a long time.

I've collected a lot of contacts from oncologists, naturopaths, herbalists, treatment methods, and people who have cured themselves or seen others cured, as well as books, articles, videos, etc. If anyone needs this kind of information, I'll try to help.

Unfortunately, I can't take my father outside because I haven't found a wheelchair yet. There's a nursing home in the neighboring village, and I can ask there, or we can save up to buy one.

I'm still waiting for Vivaton to arrive; it should arrive on the 12th, hopefully by the 11th. I hope that by the time it arrives, my father will still have some strength, and it will help improve his condition, even if only a little.
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7 years ago
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Huge thanks to everyone once again!

Today has been a very difficult day.

Yesterday, I arranged with the local priest to administer Holy Communion to my father on Friday. But today, my father's face turned purple in places, blue spots began to appear on his body, and he started choking while breathing. In short, everything was heading toward death. I sat my father up, connected a (compressor) inhaler with soda (there was nothing left to lose), called the priest and asked him to administer Communion today, and began massaging the areas where the spots appeared. Father Amvrosiy did not refuse and quickly prepared to come. There was no certainty that my father would survive until the priest's arrival. But then we began to pray that the Lord would allow Dad at least to receive Communion before death, and suddenly he began to recover—he turned pale, the spots started to fade, and his breathing returned. Moreover, he even spoke loudly during the day. This is the miracle the Lord showed us today. While reading prayers, my father had several seizures, during which his hands shook, he momentarily lost consciousness, and his eyes rolled back. But in the end, my father survived and is still alive. I hope the Lord allows my father to pass away peacefully without suffering or gives him the strength to overcome this illness. We believe, we hope, and we love...

Constant urges to have a bowel movement are tormenting my father (they twice refused to let them give him soda IVs today), plus his hands and legs are shaking. The condition is very grave.

He only takes liquids as food; unfortunately, he cannot swallow anything else. Therefore, we give him juices, water and medicines, and herbal decoctions. We haven't been able to restore digestion yet.

In general, I will try to keep you informed as much as possible.
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7 years ago
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Stay strong! We are praying for you and your family!
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Thank you all so much, guys! Today, very early in the morning, around 5:29 - 5:31, my dad passed away. During the night, he started to wheeze heavily, then he began to choke and even moan, gasping for air. I woke up and saw his last moments. I managed to wipe him with a damp cloth, say goodbye, pray, and sprinkle him with Holy Water... He suffered a lot, poor thing. He even managed to look up at me and recognize me before he died.

So, thank you all so much for your prayers, advice, support, financial help, and everything else... You gave us hope, and I hope that it prolonged and eased his last weeks.

We already buried him.
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7 years ago
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I finally got through it... I can’t find the right words, so I wish you strength to get through this and move on.
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May your father's memory be a blessing, Armag! Those who have not lost a loved one cannot understand your pain. Angels and all the heavenly forces are with you now. Try to think not only about the loss. Try to be grateful. God gave your father years of life. You had the opportunity to love your father. Think about orphans who have never been able to say "Mom, Dad..." Think about children who lose their parents at such a young, innocent, and vulnerable age, when there is no way to answer the terrible questions for themselves about why everything happened... But you are now a mature man with your own charisma, courage, and strength of will. You are now the head of the family. Everyone you love depends on you.
You know the saying that heroes never die. You will remember your father all your life, and he will be with you too. He will watch over you from heaven, follow every step you take, be proud of you, and rejoice with you in your moments of joy. He will protect you and those close to you. Just remember how your father raised you, what kind of person he wanted you to be. Try to bring more love to this world!
And I, as a simple gamer, would like to express my sincere gratitude for all your great work in developing our favorite game. Thank your father for such a son!
7 years ago
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May he rest in peace, and may his memory be eternal. My condolences.
Hang in there, brother, and support your family.
Life goes on.
7 years ago
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my condolences
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Hang in there, Vitaly. May God give you the strength to overcome this tragedy.
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My condolences.
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Everything is fair – you tried your best, and he did as much as he could (I sympathize).
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Thank you all for your kind words. God prepared a good day for my father's passing. It was very warm during the day, apricot and other trees were in bloom, birds were singing, and so on. We buried and commemorated my father in such weather. And only after the commemoration, when everyone had left, did a heavy rain with hail begin... So, nature itself allowed us to bury my father without any problems. The local priest held the funeral service for my father not at the cemetery, as is usually the case, but in the church. He only does this for parishioners and close people. I am very grateful to him for this... And we went with my uncle to seal the grave with a handful of earth. I am glad that my father's suffering is over. But I feel very guilty that we didn't start treating him sooner, that I might have done something wrong, that I might not have done everything I could, that I didn't do my best... I have let my father go and accepted it, but I haven't forgiven myself yet... Now, all that remains is to pray for my father and take care of the living members of the family as much as possible. There are many different medications left over from the treatment, so we might be able to distribute some of them to people in need (this is the most appropriate option, in my opinion) or sell them online. Plus, many of the medications simply boost the immune system and provide the body with the necessary nutrients - we can now take them as a family. And of course, my father's death should not go unnoticed. We need to get together as a family and go for tests or undergo examinations for cancer or other health problems. And not wait until serious problems arise, as in my father's case. Thank you all again! I didn't expect so much support, especially from people who don't know me at all. I am very grateful to you. I hope that I can be of help to you someday... P.S. For treatment and advice, I recommend the YouTube channel of Vladimir Luzai (he even streams almost every day), the YouTube videos "The Truth About Cancer" (a series of videos), the books and videos of Professor Neumyvakin, Daniel Colduwell (the percentage of cured patients is about 90% +/ -), Boris Greenblatt, Tulio Simoncini, Marat Khamzin (you can contact him by email), and I also recommend reading about Sodium Dichloroacetate (it has helped many people, but there have been relapses - perhaps the reason is that they did not change their lifestyle), etc. First, you will find a lot of support, and second, you will learn about real and confirmed cures for various diseases. Perhaps this will be useful to someone someday. We started too late and waited too long for the necessary medications, and we also couldn't always stick to the diet. Perhaps things will go more smoothly for you. Good luck to all. I wish you and your loved ones good health and a long and happy life!

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