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Peterius, you missed Marmot's distortion of meaning in your last post.
There are not two, but three basic forms of address:
1. (position of EQUALS) SUGGESTION
2. (position from above) ORDER
3. (position from below) REQUEST
I think Marmot misled you (he only wrote the second and third), I assume not intentionally, but because he doesn't understand it himself. And you fell for it.
And, by the way, looking at these three forms, it seems obvious to me that any request is humiliating. Because the person making the request, by the very fact of making it, acknowledges that they are lower in status. And to argue with this, well, I'll just leave it here, I won't even try to prove it if someone decides to argue.
Better yet, here's something else I'll add. In life, a person is constantly in a humiliating position because they are constantly faced with forces that make them feel insignificant. And no matter what we think, we understand this very well deep down. But living with this feeling of powerlessness in its pure form is not easy. And there are several basic options here.
Some people go crazy, putting up such strong, concrete barriers in their minds that they don't even notice that a request is, by definition, a position from below. Others go crazy, exaggerating the need to constantly prove their status in order to compensate for the burning feeling of helplessness that is inherent in life and cannot be avoided. These guys have to constantly fight to prove their strength; they can't give in – they'll be torn apart, everyone around them is like that. That's how Kokorin and Mamaev walk through the world, creating conflict around themselves until they meet their "Paka" (figuratively).
Finally, about psychologists (I'm not a psychologist either) – they seem to suggest that the healthiest option is to fully experience your powerlessness, accept it as it is, and move on. (They also hint that you shouldn't try to do this without special training; the trick is performed by professionals, and so on). At least, the situation where you "ask" won't be so nerve-wracking. Why worry? In life, you are constantly in a position either below or above. In life, wherever you look, there is a struggle of forces and statuses, and you are guaranteed to encounter situations where you are below. It seems the world is structured this way. Well, okay. If something can be done, then it's not so hopeless from below, we do it. We live on. Something like that.
P.S. Regarding what can be done in this specific situation, Dirty offered a good solution.
You can edit the message to say whatever you want. Change "Please register" to "I want to participate," for example.
If you want to eradicate evil on a forum-wide scale, then I can't add anything useful to that.
I'm not familiar with the Creator, and I don't know how to communicate with him. :) I have my own questions for him, which I think are more important.
