Andrey, I don't quite understand the motives and methods behind your actions, and it's not that important. But I'd like to point out a certain inconsistency in your approach, namely that Onegin and Pechorin would not have acted in the same way ("A Hero of Our Time" is my favorite Russian prose work). I'm simply sure that Pechorin would have started by depriving the girl of the attention of others (rather than increasing it) and making her fall in love with him (or at least become interested).