...I think I made my point clearly, and you shouldn't attribute your own thoughts to me...

No one is doing that; please, no personal attacks. This isn't about you; it's about the situation with load orders.
Agree on things before the game so there are no hard feelings or misunderstandings later. There's no need to introduce it as a rule – the reason is simple, and it's already been discussed; it will cause more problems than it solves.

...Regarding the rules, blah, blah, blah, there is such a thing as normal, decent behavior and attitude, and when I play with someone, I expect that kind of attitude, especially if I behave that way towards them (the fact that I provide a load order is one of the manifestations of this normal attitude), and if someone were to cheat me with a load order (I gave one, and they didn't return it), I would draw very clear conclusions about that person and definitely wouldn't play Heroes with them in the future, except in tournaments.

That's what it's about – respecting your opponent. I completely agree.
Besides, if you just stick to the rules, you can pull the plug, block the load order, and add neutrals.... And no one will notice :rolleyes:
Try to prove it – after all, you technically haven't broken any rules :rolleyes: ('All for the win').
I've never understood this; what will such a victory give you? You win – good for you, but it won't make you play any better. Besides, the title of tournament winner is far from the main indicator of skill. :smile33: