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Based on your post, it seems like you believe that the Dark Elves will just sit back and watch while all the other races get stronger. On an XL map, I will persistently search for enemy heroes starting from level 10-12, only diverting my attention to truly worthwhile targets. Even if I don't have the best starting position or development (in terms of time), a well-developed Dark Elf hero at level 12 can easily defeat a hero of any race that is 3-4 levels higher. I'm not considering artifacts here, as most people do when describing the strengths of their factions; I'm simply saying that with the necessary artifacts, a "dark-eared" hero becomes a terror on the map.
P.S. In my opinion, on an XL map, the Dark Elves' strategy should focus not on their own development, but on preventing the opponent from developing (IMHO).