[QUESTION for the girls]:))

oh, the horror
it's simple – because it's a woman (female gender)
and all explanations and variations are based on this
however, the author is unlikely to be interested in the physiological side of this issue
and if he is, let him read books – there are many of them now
the scariest thing is that sometimes it seems that a girl is offended, but in reality, she is not offended, but only pretending to see how you will behave
I don't know what I'm talking about, but nevertheless, that's what I think, and no matter what is discussed or said here, it will not help the author of the question, because nothing can be changed, except perhaps to become more careful in words and actions, to lock yourself in the closet and never approach girls again

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if you look at a girl, she thinks you are sexually obsessed
if you don't look at a girl, she thinks you are gay
when you learn to make her think what you want her to think, then you will comprehend universal wisdom, bliss, and enlightenment
then you can calmly die – your mission is accomplished, you are perfect

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and yes, the question is rhetorical and not very conducive to flame wars