- "Oh, if only I could live to be thirty" or "I doubt I'll live to that age" - this is the most common mistake of those who don't want or can't plan their lives ahead. Time passes, and we inevitably reach that age, but with each year, there are fewer opportunities in life. Imagine yourself as an old woman, without a husband, without children, and without grandchildren - will your youthful adventures as a knight, your career successes, and all the rest really warm you up? When I turned thirty, I finally understood why so many older people are so cynical. Those who failed to build a healthy family are simply resentful of life and everyone they encounter, and that's very sad.
-- But may I ask? There are fewer opportunities with each year -- but they still exist, right? Even if you haven't had time to take care of this important issue yet, you are still perceived as being twenty-five, so... You probably have friends, and your friends have female friends with the same problem. You run a photo studio, so maybe you have many acquaintances through your work. No, thinking about it is obviously the right thing to do, but thoughts are needed to help determine a program for further actions, to create a plan, as you said? Am I wrong?
-- If you missed the morning train, what's the point of blaming yourself? You know the schedule, you know what time you should get up, so try to catch it tomorrow instead of staying at this half-station while all the trains pass by. Of course, I'm just a theorist, I only reason based on books, but... I want to believe that everything is still ahead, because you have already taken the first huge step through rationalization. And let me really believe, maybe I can infect you with that belief? As naive as it may sound, it's sincere.