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You're acting like a little girl. They're always looking for common ground. As if, if there's nothing in common, you can't have a normal conversation, lol.
If they weren't acting like girls, I'd call these types jerks, because they're uncomfortable when there's no common ground, meaning the person won't agree with you on everything, and that causes them emotional turmoil.
Don't worry or be sarcastic, Wolves. These lines, as well as the following paragraph, are just a reflection, not an attempt to point fingers at anyone in particular.
The interest in communication and the possibility of friendship do not depend at all on how pleasant the relationship is, or on the number of similar traits or similar interests or worldviews. If a person does not share an opinion or interest, or even criticizes it, and the person feels apprehension, dislike, contempt, tension, or coldness because of it, then what can you say? He's just an idiot.
If he needs to have a small, pleasant circle of sycophants or people "who also confirm his views," then he's a weak-willed wimp. It's the same as reading some pseudo-philosophical journalistic drivel just to nod at every page and say, "Yeah, I think so too! This guy is writing everything correctly!" It's nonsense. Without encountering resistance, you won't find any development.