Heroin_HP
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Exactly, because it turns into a situation like this:
I'm building a house, and you've never been to a construction site, but you're saying the house is terrible and poorly made. But how can you assess the quality or a particular situation when you only hear about it from people who haven't been there, haven't seen it, and haven't heard about it, yet they all feel obligated to express their opinion and completely criticize it.
"Don't wade into the water if you don't know the ford." (Russian proverb).
What house, what water, what ford? You yourself write that you lost, shook hands (respectfully acknowledged defeat), went away, thought about it, and offered money for the win (respectful and honest, in your opinion?).