I don't consider this normal, but I condemn those who judge members of sexual minorities, try to harm them, beat them, etc. If mature people want to be together, no one should interfere with them.
And yet, let's not forget about some kind of "market for goods and services," where, for example, very unattractive, slovenly, fat anime girls, who are fans of yaoi, start looking for other fat anime girls and, referring to themselves in the masculine gender, begin to pursue relationships. They do this out of desperation, but that doesn't mean they should be bullied or harassed.
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