How can the game be made more realistic?

Friends, please forgive me, but after reading some of the messages, I have a strong feeling that there is a certain "only correct" way to play Heroes 3. And if you don't play the way it's "supposed to be played," then you're a loser. Can we please stop this? I can understand when a little boy gets upset with another little boy because he's not driving a toy car, but trying to hammer nails with it. But when older people start seriously drawing analogies to real life... Come on, guys. It's just a computer game. A good one, certainly, but still just a game.