Please offer some advice.

Just don't forget about us. Otherwise, you'll read too much on those "smart" websites :)
Also, regarding Order. It will be hard to level up, but useful, of course. Here you can have both Forgetfulness for medusas and hypnosis. Plus another + 20% to summons and illusions. That alone (without all the Order spells) is worth it. But it's better to summon phoenixes and manticores, as illusions will be more disadvantaged.

I'm not going anywhere from here at all. This is my first forum, and how could one trade in (first love :p )? I've received a lot of useful information here. I especially like reading about how someone uses spells or something else in specific situations (it expands the horizons). And of all the forgetfulness spells, Cloud of Confusion rules. By the way, it's better to cast an additional summon on already resurrected Phoenixes (summoned)