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In my opinion, you can only ask for advice, but the responsibility for action/inaction will still be hers in any case.
I prefer to go all the way, even if I make a mistake, but if I don't make a mistake, the benefit is more often than with mistakes.
Now, a prosaic question, is Nefela a newbie in the Mafia? I would at least raise this question, or at the very least, start to suspect and check, for example.