Three people you respect the most on the forum.

Andrey, I don't quite understand the motives and methods of your actions, and it's not that important. But I'll allow myself to point out a certain inconsistency in you, namely that Onegin and Pechorin would not have acted this way ("A Hero of Our Time" is my favorite Russian prose work). I'm just sure that Pechorin would have started by depriving the girl of the attention of others (rather than increasing it) and making her fall in love with him (or at least become interested).

))Inconsistency??? In what way?? You can talk about consistency (or inconsistency) when you are striving to achieve a certain goal ("A Hero of Our Time" is my favorite work). In this case, Onegin and Pechorin acted as you say, with the goal of gaining the girl's favor. I, on the other hand, have never sought, am not seeking, and will not seek the favor of Ta_Kotoraya. I am pursuing a different goal (see above), and you will not achieve it with the methods you suggested))).
There used to be a girl here, in whom I didn't see any flaws at all. In addition to the positive qualities that Ta_Kotoraya has and the absence of her flaws, she had a whole range of other virtues: an amazing sense of humor (it's not even a feeling, but some kind of intuition!! She always answered my questions in exactly the way that seemed to me to be the most appropriate), a sense of proportion (she never stuck her nose where it didn't need to be and didn't offer help to everyone. A person who offers to help everyone is either a genius or actually can't help anyone), modesty (it turns out that she helped with the design of the website, and no one knew about it).