What do you mean by "dirt"? In my editor, I only see this: earth, sand, grass, snow, swamp, stones, Dungeon, stones, water, and tales. Or did you mean earth by "dirt"?
Regarding Conflux, I agree with you: the doubled Phoenix growth with the Grail makes this city even more unbalanced. However, even with the Grail, you can prohibit individual spells in the city's properties – then the Guild of Mages will give all the spells, except for those you directly prohibit.
In the properties of castles, you can not only build structures but also prohibit them. You can make building a Watchtower impossible by unchecking the "enable" box.
(Василь Симоненко. Люди – прекрасні)