Juristis
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This is probably the most important thing.
And secondly, I would put the independent life. We live as a small family in a rented apartment on the outskirts, but we have complete mutual understanding and no "advice" or "interference" from parents and relatives.
But when your wife is constantly being nagged with "why is he playing games instead of helping you?", when there is always someone to complain to instead of having a constructive conversation with your spouse, you will be the scapegoat, as an object of envy.