Actually, the issue isn't about the heroes, but about the relationship or the status. The first scenario is when you can agree on something with your wife, keep your word and time, and there will be time for both the game and the family. The second scenario is when you are the head of the family, and there's not much to discuss. I think all other scenarios are clear (for married people) – in this case, the heroes are doomed to try to play stealthily, while she's not yelling, while she's not around, etc.