rebellious, you've basically written "I am unable to read and remember the rules and apply them during the game."
This is exactly the short and precise description of the problem being discussed here -
some players are unable to read and understand/remember the rules.
(laziness, mental weakness, indifference, or something else - everyone can find the reason within themselves)
For some reason, some of them (not all) feel that they should be paid attention to and that something should be done with the rules. What exactly - it's unclear.
It's like kindergarten, isn't it?

Is reading and remembering that only one Dimension Door is allowed really such a difficult task? Think about it again - is this an insurmountable task?
control spells are the strongest in the game. Is it really impossible to pay attention to them?