One for all, and all for one!

Do you think the tournament organizer can behave/write like that? Essentially telling a player to "shut up."

If I somehow offended you, I didn't mean to. I wanted to draw a clear line so that everyone understands that it is now pointless to discuss how things should or should not be done, as everything will be decided by the pre-written REGULATIONS.

You should have agreed on the game time in advance. Specifically, at the time of postponing the match (and not just one or two dates need to be discussed). If it is not possible to agree, you need to inform the organizer, which was not done in all those cases (almost all) in which there is now a delay.

Okay. I will notify the player BorzoiD that I can play (Moscow time):
09.01.13 from 14:00 to 21:00 (start no later than 18:00)
10.01.13 from 14:00 to 21:00 (start no later than 18:00)
11.01.13 I probably won't be able to play. It will be clear closer to the time.
12.01.13 from 8:00 to 23:00.

I ask the player BorzoiD to determine the time when he can play with me. I will also send him a link to this in ICQ.

Such notifications are very correct in their essence, it's a pity that this becomes clear only at the last moment and not at the time when it is possible to more flexibly manage the time slots for the game.
At the moment, as far as I understand, you have not agreed on a specific date for the continuation of the game, so your date is already known - 12.01.13. And if, for example, you can play all these days until that date, but not on that day, and he can, on the contrary, then the result will be in his favor.