Let's just go to the point of absurdity and restart until we get a setup that suits both of us.
That's how Alex and I usually play)))
In my opinion, you can give extra restarts in a seasonal game (fun games) where you practice the game, so that the opponent also has everything normal and there is a confrontation. The same goes for autosaves (with a note about a draw).
But in a tournament, you need to play hard. I took restarts because there were few hives, I risked that they would give me a good hand - I got blocked and lost. Lose the tournament and think next time whether to take a restart in a middle situation.
I AM FOR strict rules in tournaments.
I didn't do that even against those I had a conflict with. Pyotr can confirm. (CIS in Kyiv...)