RedB and Alloya are saying sensible things, but Ganymed also made a good point. You could choose not the most beautiful one, but create several equally "prestigious" nominations: p - well, like "Miss Kind Smile," "Miss Gentle Sunshine," "Miss Sharp Tongue," and so on... :o You can, of course, come up with less silly nominations. For example, give gifts to the female contestants for the New Year. :)
Or, here's another idea: based on the fact that the portal is heroic and knightly, allow users to display a small icon-image of their favorite forum member with the caption: "fighting in the glory of Alloya," for example... :rolleyes: Like a lady of the heart on a shield, how cool! :cool: And no one will be offended.
P.S. I have a lot of romantic ideas today. It's clear I didn't get enough sleep. :D