Hey, why are you so focused on Antonshka? Crossbowmen don't attack their own units standing on adjacent tiles. That's one thing.
In this case, crossbowmen will be blocked first, and secondly, when the same cavalry units are fighting on the front lines, you might have to wait or even skip turns so as not to hit your own units.
Spending upgrade points on crossbowmen (+3% damage per shot) - the ONLY ranged unit in the entire faction - is the height of irresponsibility.
In the Campaigns, upgraded cavalry and light cavalry rule, not ranged units.
Buggy cavalry definitely doesn't rule. Light cavalry deals good damage, yes, but they can never hold the line.
What to do if the crossbowmen are taken out?
Passive perks for defense and retaliation, and warcries.

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