Don't be pushy here. If you don't have time, don't play Heroes; I don't care about your problems. There's a set of rules.
Are you a person or a bot? Most likely the latter, as two things indicate this:
1. Lack of understanding of real-life situations among adults;
2. Creating reports about opponents' losses before the 3rd day of the game (which contradicts all human morality and degrades you as a player and a person).
I repeat, just because your whole life is limited to playing games and spending time on forums doesn't mean everyone else is the same...