Uncle Freud, as I recall, wrote a lot about sublimation...
Let's not talk about Freud.
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Yeah... that's for sure, we have common interests in terms of gender... by the way, I met this cool girl recently - we went to the movies, to a cafe... turns out she's a lesbian, I was devastated for about three weeks... :(
And I'm a heterosexual. :D