Sacred Haven of Debauchery

I was hoping you were just pretending, but alas.

the only thing missing here is insults directed at a girl

This phrase basically says that there weren't any insults directed at a girl in this thread, meaning I was wrong about that point, or rather, about half of it, because there was swearing, but it wasn't directed at a girl. Although this is just one thread; maybe in others, there were insults directed at a girl; who knows. Some people can easily communicate with women using profanity; you should know this better than anyone.