For example, you fall in love with someone and suffer because the object of your affection does not love you. This is not love – it is egoism!
It turns out you want the object of your affection to love you. It is presumptuous to want everyone we supposedly love to love us back.
Unrequited love does not exist; we simply call it that. In reality, it is not love, but a desire to make someone fall in love with you (to force them to love you).
Love is only mutual; everything that is not mutual is not love.
As for 3-4 years, it is also not about love. Attachment is not love, and they cannot be put in the same category.
Love requires constant nurturing.
PASSION IGNITES, BUT LOVE IS BORN.