It seems like a whole new topic has emerged. Ariputra, I'm not bothered by male users using female avatars, or vice versa, because I've gotten used to seeing them. I also know most of the people on the forum, so I know who's a gentleman and who's a lady. But when you're just getting to know people on the forum, it can be difficult to figure out who's who, especially if they don't have their name or gender in their profile, and their nickname is similar to yours. For example, I don't know what Ariputra is or what it means. Personally, I often ask people their names to make the virtual communication a little more personal. And as I see it, my comment about the avatar is what's bothering you more. You can relax; consider it just a thought I had out loud. I suggest we stop this off-topic argument.