That may be true. But how do you keep people locked in this thread? Conversations like "We have nothing to talk about..." will inevitably start.
The fact that people are already VOLUNTARILY entering this thread in order to figure out and solve the problem already says a lot.
Why would anyone need to actually fight for long with someone they'll still have to live under one roof with—the roof of our forum?:)
When Andrey and Tanya had their quarrel, you saw yourself that their fight did NOT go without PUBLIC attention. Every time they hit a dead end, the PEOPLE (only then) started to intervene.
After all, they hit a dead end more than once, but in the end, everything was resolved!:)
Let the PROCESS be an individual-collective one!
Respectfully,
Prorock.

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Для добродетелей и мира.
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