I'm talking about singling out people from the crowd who possess certain qualities (which I value). It doesn't matter what gender they are. The person is simply likeable, and it's pleasant to communicate with them.
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It wouldn't be so bad if I felt something similar towards every girl I communicate with (there are many of them in our group, by the way). But that's not the case; with the others, it's just normal communication, and there are no emotions.