I want to be a girl sometimes, is it normal?

In Oblivion, I have a save file with over 100 hours of playtime and more than ten gigabytes of plugins.

I have 300. Better tell me your character's gender.
The only thing that bothers me in KOTOR when playing as a male character is that I have to have romances with female characters.
If the female protagonist could have a romance with Bao-Dur, I would never play as a male character in the second game.