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It's not about how your parents see you... (mine have already enrolled me in an architecture program in Moscow), but about who you really are in this world. You can just sit around doing nothing, spending your days in front of the computer and talking about this and that. Some people might find that okay... but it would be even better to actually put those words into action. Because no one else will take care of us if we don't take care of ourselves. Of course, parents might help, but that's more of a topic for an article about hikikomori...
Ultimately, it all depends on the person. If they want to be strong and see themselves as worthy, capable of providing for a family, then they will either achieve it or at least try.
But in general, responsibility and family are probably not for those who spend their free time on the internet, away from worries...
Sorry for this ethical outburst, but I just want to criticize everyone, including myself.